(Closed) Bachelorette Party Question

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Is it required that all of the bridesmaids be at the bride's bachelorette party?
    No, it is optional : (9 votes)
    33 %
    No, as long as there is a good reason : (12 votes)
    44 %
    Yes, it is required : (2 votes)
    7 %
    Yes, the bride would flip and it is the bridesmaid's duty : (4 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 3
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I had one of my bridesmaids miss part of my bach party because she couldn’t afford it. I think as long as there’s a good reason (and not just like they got invited to a better party or something), I think it’s fine for bridesmaids to miss the bach party. If you’re uncomfortable with it (I’m guessing they’re going to a strip club?), can you maybe meet them before or after? 

    Post # 4
    Member
    13101 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think it is okay for them to not be there if they have a good reason (kind of as hilsy85 said).

    It’s not requred that they attend but IMO, as a BM, you should make every reasonable effort to be there for what you can.

    Post # 5
    Member
    326 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I don’t think it is required especially if as you say they are uncomfortable with it… as a matter if fact, two of my BMs are pretty much not invited since they are much more conservative than I am and I think it would make them uncomfortable being there and me uncomfortable worrying what they thought of the whole thing.

    Post # 6
    Member
    5273 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    Agree that they should make an effort – 2 missed mine but that is b/c they live out of state.

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