(Closed) Bachelorette party vent

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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611 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Why don’t you want to sleep over? R u guys getting a hotel? How about a cab? I guess it’s kinda bummer that ur MOH is not really good at planning these things but since you’re also planning it, hopefully you’ll be able to affect some changes for the better!

Post # 4
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2532 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If I were you I would just talk to your MOH. Tell her your expectations of your bachelorette party and tell her you would be willing to pay a little more for yourself in order toget a limo or party bus. Honestly I dont know how many people will be attending your party but a limo split between 6 people for a few hours would probably only be like $50-75 a person. Especially in times like these negotitation is everything. YOu can talk to a limo rental company and tell them your budget and see what they can do for you. I find it hard to imagine your girlfriends wouldnt be into this. THis is what we are doing for mine and even though my FI is going to Vegas and Im doing bar hopping in DC we are going to have a great pregame at my house and then get a party bus and go bar hopping. If someone couldnt pay their part I would definitely take on more just so we could do what I want to do. I hope everything works out for you!!!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I totally understand the not sleeping over thing. I hate sleeping over at my girlfriends apartments and they dont even have babies!! As far as the limo – yeah it sucks that you would have to pay towards it because its your bachelorette but if the alternative is not having a limo and you being upset then I would just pay. Its not like after the night of your party you are going to be like “Oh it was not a good time because I had to pay X amount” You are just going to remember the awesome time you had and be able to say you had a limo!

Post # 7
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573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Talk to your MOH and figure out the budget (talk to the other girls who you’d want to have come and try to see what they are expecting/would like to spend). Definitely tell her who you want to invite, and tell her to cancel with that other girl!

You might be able to get a limo if you cut down on the number of places you go out to or shorten the night (start off at your MOH’s place and then just go out for a few hours). Or maybe you could rent a couple of hotel rooms and go to bars that are within walking distance. Or you could take cabs around and rent yourself a car service to get home at the end of the night. Good luck!

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