Post # 1
My bf and I were discussing what we’d want for our bachelor and bachelorette parties some day- his friends pretty much need guidance on what to do for him, but mine are pretty sweet with party planning, they just ask for a theme… so on that note, what are you ladies doing?
I’ve been to:
1. 80s themed bachelorette where we all dressed crazy and then did 80s karaoke at a friend’s, got ready, played 20 questions and then went out to gay clubs in NYC’s west village.
2. Atlantic City Bachelorette that was too expensive for my taste ($700 / person)
3. South beach bachelorette that involved 1 night of a nice dinner, a spa treatment, clubbing and 2 days of beaching/swimming.
Post # 3
I had mine last month and on the Friday we went for afternoon tea (very British) at a posh hotel. Then on the Saturday we went to the horse racing, followed by a pub, a meal at a restaurant then a club.
This is us
Post # 4
My FI and I are very much homebodies and don’t like the bar scene. For our parties, we’re doing something very plain!
He’s going golfing with the groomsmen, and I’m going to Olive Garden with my girls!!
Yes, we live on the edge!
I think each couple is different, and should do what they feel most comfortable doing.
Post # 5
We’re going to see an off Broadway show and then out for a nice dinner and drinks. This is literally my PERFECT bachelorette! No stuffy bars. No belligerent drunks. No penis paraphernalia.
Post # 6
I want it to just be my family… I’ll invite 2 of the girlfriends of my fiance’s friends- maybe. I’m not close to them. And I’ll hope my FSIL does not show up… lol!
I’d love just a BBQ and drinks outside!
Post # 7
one of the best ones I’ve been to was just at the MOH’s house, and was a quiet girly night with movies, drinks, and chocolate.
Unlike my bridesmaids, I do kind of like the bar scene, so I’m hoping to just go barhopping… they’ll do it cuz they love me. 🙂
Post # 8
We are going out to eat and then to one of those private room kareoke places where we can bring your own alcohol and then back to a friends place to play games and chill for the rest of the night. At least that is the plan right now.
Post # 9
For mine I wanted to have a fairy theme. Not so much the prissy pretty, but more of a grown up sexy fairy. We’re all gonna get the wands and everything. I think themes just enhance the experience. Other than that, I know we’re gonna go out but I’m not quite sure where. I’m not much of a clubber but I’VE GOT TO BE SEEN THAT NIGHT LOL…good luck! 🙂
Post # 10
My perfect bachelorette party would be a spa day and then a nice night of dinner and drinks.
That being sad, the few bachelorettes I have been to have been exactly that. Drinking all day, food, and more drinking. My FI is hoping to go fishing with the guys and then hang out at a bar. We are easy to please 🙂
Post # 11
I have just rented a private room in a restaurant for the night and Im going to have all my girl friends come for dinner. Then the next day, I have rented a convertable car and booked a suite at a fancy hotel in the mountains. We(my 3 maids) are going to drive up, go to the spa and then go for a fancy dinner and then drive back in the morning. 2 more weeks… Im so freaken excited.
Post # 12
I hosted a bachelorette day the day before the wedding. It was in Norther Michigans wine country and we went wine tasting, had lunch and a spa treatment (with more wine!) and then had to get to the rehearsal. It was a bunch of fun to be classy but a little crazy and it fit everyones budget since we were all there already.