- 8 years ago
- Wedding: April 2010
I’m trying to decide if I really need a bachelorette party. I don’t have many close friends. I have a group of girls I went to college with, but we’ve grown apart. I was always a little on the outside of this group anyways. My bridesmaids are all family (which I’m really glad about). Unfortunately, one of them lives too far away to come and another won’t even be 18 when I get married. I would like to have a party, but I don’t know if anyone would come. I’m also worried that my college friends would come only because it is the first bachelorette party of our group. I want them to come to celebrate and support my marriage not because I’m the first. This belief stems from the fact that I have invited them multiple times to things (BBQs, celebrations, and my birthday) but they never show. They always say sorry, but its hard to believe after a while. The thing is that I don’t want people to be there just because it is the first bachelorette party. I want everyone to be there for me. This might be selfish, but thats how I feel. I just don’t know if I want a celebration if no one really wants to be there.
Any words of wisdom or advice?
P.S. Sorry if I sound whiney I just have no one else to ask about this.