bachelorette tomorrow and I just got into huge fight with MOH

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2179 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

Who the hell spends 12 hours at a bar for a bachelorette party? It sounds very odd to me personally. I think like dinner then a bar is good but just a bar for that long is CRAZY.

I’d call her and apologize for making waves but say you don’t understand her rationale of 12 hours at a bar with no food, I mean it’s your bachelorette shouldn’t you have some say in it?

Post # 4
3659 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I don’t think I really understand — can you explain what she has planned for the bachelorette party?

Post # 5
2884 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

so she has told you the plan is to go to a bar at 3pm and stay there? or you are assuming?

Post # 8
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Now, I can drink (or I could, before the being pregnant thing), and I can dance, and I can party…

But even I would have NO IDEA what to do at a bar for 12 HOURS!

Post # 9
1634 posts
Bumble bee

@littlemisshostess:  It kind of sounds to me like she was expecing a lot more people and it would be a lot easier to orchestrate the evening if you guys just hung out there all night. If the bar is open in the afternoon I assume they have a menu and is kind of a lounge in the afternoons then turns into a busy club at night (correct me if im wrong) you can tell her that you appreciate her hard work (even if she hasnt put much into it) but because the guest list is much smaller than anticipated it might be fun to move around a bit more. Why dont you go out for dinner somewhere, then go to a lounge or someones house for drinks  and get dolled up, then go out dancing? It would be horrible to cancel your party now, you might as well do a bit of re-arranging and make the best of it.

Post # 11
3570 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Tell her you are sorry for your reaction, and maybe you guys could show up around 5, and spend some time getting ready together before hand or something.  

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