(Closed) Bachelorette Woes

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
3572 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Just tell the Bridesmaid or Best Man who asked that its not possible for your Maid/Matron of Honor to plan a Bachelorette party for you. You can always say that you’d like to have one, but that you’re unsure whether they have time, money, and energy to throw one. You could always offer to help on the sly. Honestly, I think a lot of brides do end up helping with their own bachelorette party and showers, dpending on how involved they want the party. (i.e., if its beyond like cake and punch in the afternoon). 

Maybe I’m wrong. I didn’t have either of those, but its just my perception from reading about them on the bee.

If they can’t throw you a party, you can always just host a party with your friends. It doesn’t have to be called anything formal. Just “Hey, I want to have a party with my best friends, can you be available.” Or you could make cutie invites so they see how it’s important to you.

Good luck!

Post # 4
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Technically, brides are not supposed to throw their own showers or bachelorettes, it is in poor form to throw a party in your own honor.  If you like, you can put together a girls night out that doesn’t pertain to the wedding.

I’m sorry your bridesmaids are not throwing these parties, but not everyone has a bachelorette.

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