(Closed) Bachlorette Party

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

I told my girls no strip clubs, no strippers and no penis shaped ANYTHING!  I think we are starting at a hotel pool, doing dinner, and then going out to a club.

If you don’t want to go to a strip club, then tell your BMs.  It’s your party and you should be comfortable with what you’re doing. 🙂

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

we went out to dinner at a trendy restaurant and then went to a piano bar and a bar where we could dance.  I pretty much suggested everything.

Post # 6
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166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I want to go to a nice restaurant and have dinner and if i can afford it, pay for everyone, then they can take me out to a trendy club in brisbane called cloudland and we gan get trashed on really expensive cocktails! 🙂

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

We’re starting out with a wine tasting, then going for an afternoon “high tea,” then a little break to relax and get ready for the night, followed by club hopping/dancing.  I’m so excited, it’s perfect for me.  But I did say no strip club and no penis shaped anything–I think that’s tacky, I’m not getting married for sex, I’m getting married for love.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I think Bachelorette parties are a hard thing because a lot of people think it should be one way, while other people think it should be another!  I don’t think, though, it should ever be something the bride is uncomfortable with.  My suggestion is to pull aside the one you trust the most (maybe your MOH?) and explain in no uncertain terms that you DO NOT want that sort of party.  Explain why and be nice but firm.  Hopefully she will get the picture and they’ll avoid planning something you don’t want.  I know a friend of mine had to veto some ideas of the bridesmaids at her sister’s bachelorette party; they were mad at her, but when she told her sister after, her sister was very happy.  Pick whoever you think will stand up for you!

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