Post # 1
What are you doing for your bachlorette party? How do you feel about it?
My bridesmaids wants to take me to a male strip club but i dont want to do anything like that. I feel that we should go have dinner or like a spa day with me and my girls but the girls want to party it up.
Post # 3
I told my girls no strip clubs, no strippers and no penis shaped ANYTHING! I think we are starting at a hotel pool, doing dinner, and then going out to a club.
If you don’t want to go to a strip club, then tell your BMs. It’s your party and you should be comfortable with what you’re doing. 🙂
Post # 4
Well Ive told them that i didnt want to go but i have a feeling they have a trick up there sleeves. I feel like im at a stage in my life where im done with all the partying and drinking till im beyond drunk but they arent so its hard to think what they will be planning.
Post # 5
we went out to dinner at a trendy restaurant and then went to a piano bar and a bar where we could dance. I pretty much suggested everything.
Post # 6
I want to go to a nice restaurant and have dinner and if i can afford it, pay for everyone, then they can take me out to a trendy club in brisbane called cloudland and we gan get trashed on really expensive cocktails! 🙂
Post # 7
We’re starting out with a wine tasting, then going for an afternoon “high tea,” then a little break to relax and get ready for the night, followed by club hopping/dancing. I’m so excited, it’s perfect for me. But I did say no strip club and no penis shaped anything–I think that’s tacky, I’m not getting married for sex, I’m getting married for love.
Post # 8
I think Bachelorette parties are a hard thing because a lot of people think it should be one way, while other people think it should be another! I don’t think, though, it should ever be something the bride is uncomfortable with. My suggestion is to pull aside the one you trust the most (maybe your MOH?) and explain in no uncertain terms that you DO NOT want that sort of party. Explain why and be nice but firm. Hopefully she will get the picture and they’ll avoid planning something you don’t want. I know a friend of mine had to veto some ideas of the bridesmaids at her sister’s bachelorette party; they were mad at her, but when she told her sister after, her sister was very happy. Pick whoever you think will stand up for you!