Post # 1
I’m back on this side after I had a misscarriage in June.
On June 25th I went in for a routine ultrasound, and found no heartbeat. was scheduled for a d and c and has it on the 27th. After 6 terrible weeks, this past weekend I finally stopeed spotting, and ovulated. After my first cycle, we will be trying again. My period is due in about a week…then it’s TTC round 1 for us
My heart hurts every single day and not a day goes by where I don’t think and miss my little one.
I know he/she is in a better place, and God is holding them until I can hold them myself.
Post # 3
I’m so sorry to hear about what you’ve been going through with the mc! I hope your TTC stay is short and that you’ll be holding your rainbow baby soon! Welcome back =)
Post # 4
I am so sorry that you are experiencing the pain of a loss. Do you have an online support group? Or one IRL? I know on another forum that I visit (Just Mommies) there is a great community of women who support eachother through thier loss(es). Sometimes it is helpful to have other women to chat with who have gone through a similar loss.
I hope that your next steps in TTC are smooth and quick! Good luck and *big hugs*
Post # 5
@urchin: No, the only online group I go on is here 🙁
people around me try to help, but a lot of the times they are just unable to say the right things
Post # 6
@mrscandyv: I’m so sorry to hear about your MC. You sound very strong and brave. I hope you conceive really soon 🙂
Post # 7
I’ve been thinking about you a lot. I know that your BFP is just around the corner *Hugs*
Post # 8
@mrscandyv: I’m sorry. I’ve experienced 2 and it’s never easy.
Post # 9
I’m so sorry for your loss. Many hugs xx
Post # 10
- Wedding: September 2015 - Historic Chapel
@mrscandyv: I know how a miscarriage can feel I just had one back in April, so I’m sorry you had to go thru that 🙁 on the bright side I’ve heard you are way more fertil after having a miscarriage or giving birth! I got pregnant again just a month after having my miscarriage, so it is possible! I know you will get your rainbow baby soon!
Lost of sticky baby dust for you!!!
A “rainbow baby” is a baby that is born following a miscarriage or still birth.
The storm (pregnancy loss) has already happened and nothing can change that experience. Storm-clouds might still be overhead as the family continue to cope with the loss, but something colourful and bright has emerged from the darkness and misery.
Post # 11
It breaks my heart to hear this awful news. I hope your healing process is a short one and that your rainbow baby is coming soon. When I miscarried in april I found that although people around me tried to comfort me, they managed to say the least sensitive things possible (-At least you can get pregnant, -You can always try again, etc).
If you need support, there are a group of wonderful ladies in the TTC after MC thread that were indispensible to me when I got back into TTC. Just reading their stories made me feel less alone and many have gone on to have successful pregnancies after recurrent miscarriages. Made me have hope!
Post # 12
@MrsRugbee: +1 Hearing “encouraging” words from people in real life is rough. The Bee is such a great support system.
I’m so sorry you are going through this. I hope you get your sticky bean very very soon.
Post # 13
I am so very sorry for your loss. I had a miscariage in March and we did the same thing you are. We waited for one normal cycle and then started trying again. I do believe women are more fertile after a miscarriage, we got pregnant our first time trying after ours. I really hope you get a sticky baby soon. The hurt/pain from a miscarriage never goes away but it does get a bit easier to handle with time. Hugs to you and your husband.
Post # 14
@mrscandyv: I am so sorry you had to go through a mc. There is a lovely bunch of ladies in the ttc after miscarriage group, come by if you haven’t already.
Post # 15
- Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY
I’m so sorry to hear that. Hopefully you find some confort here on the Bee, we are here for you and many ladies understand what you’re going through!!
Post # 16
Oh honey I’m sorry to read this. I’m sad you are back under these circumstances but you are in the right place, there is lots of love on these boards. Baby dust to you xxxx