- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
My Wedding is coming up in October, and I’ve had this one bridesmaid from hell. She been a friend for 10 years so I didn’t think I have a problem. My sister is the Maid/Matron of Honor. When I first ask my bridesmaids (4 totals) to everyone help each other and help my sister since this is her first wedding as a bridesmaid and Maid/Matron of Honor. The friends said sure no problem, she can plan the shower, she will handle bachelorette party. Well now my one friend thinks she is the Maid/Matron of Honor and giving my sister the hardest time. It’s my friend way or the high way. If she comes up with an idea or makes something you better praise her. If my sister has an idea or makes something she has to make a point to tell her that they are so ugly and that will not work. I even made my own shower invitations, and she told my sister that they were ugly and I wouldn’t ever like them. But she goes to dollar general and buys $1 invitations and says she has to use them. Also I told them from day one I don’t want to go bar hopping for my bachelorette party. And my friend already has the bus scheduled and ready to go because that way she can meet all the cute guys. I have two other bridesmaids that have really just let them fight it out but they are on different sides. During the shower I could feel the tension and no one talked to each other during the shower. I’m so tired of this and don’t need this extra stress. What should I do? I believe I’m allowed ONE bridezilla moment and might call her and tell her to get off her high horse.