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    pharlley    May 12, 2012   Ontario

    Hi Ladies!

    I was wondering if anyone has some advice on how to handle this situation...

    One of my DEAREST and oldest friends posted engagement pictures on FB....in them there was a STD photo....the date is the day AFTER my wedding, for which she was to be apart of.  The problem...she lives in the US, and I in Canada...so she wont be going...and she didnt even tell me..like I said, I found out on FACEBOOK!

    Has anyone had this before?  How did you cope?

     
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    Wonderstruck    September 18, 2011   Detroit, MI

    That is so rude! I would call her, explain what you saw, and ask her what the heck!

     
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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    Have you called her?! Maybe there was an error on the date? That seems strange that if you're so close she would have her wedding the day after yours in another country and not even tell you....

     
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    love108    September 2014  

    who puts an std on FB anyway??

     
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    accorn    June 9, 2012   Texas/Louisiana

    Ouf, is she in your bridal party?
    I'm sorry- it would have been nice to be told instead of finding out on facebook.

     
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    pharlley    May 12, 2012   Ontario

    we opted out of a wedding party (in lieu of witnesses) because my gfs are all over the place, and I wanted to make it as easy as possible on everyone.  just a sad realization that things change, i guess.  thanks for the support!

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    Wow, maybe she didn't realize, and it's still early enough to change things?  That seems like a really strange thing to do, to not check your calendar for weddings you already committed to being a part of and plan accordingly.

     

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