(Closed) Bailing Bridesmaids :(

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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7168 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

They should not have committed and not followed through.  It would have much better with less hurt feelings if they politely declined from the very beginning.  I’m sorry!

Post # 5
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781 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

That sucks.. I’m sorry and I totally feel your pain. 🙁 My own SISTER dropped out with 5 months to go but led me on for SO LONG. Granted, she is pregnant (won’t be for wedding)..but she knew from the beginning that she was. It really hurt my feelings honestly. And now I think my cousin is going to drop out because she still hasn’t gotten a dress and randomly moved to Los Angeles out of nowhere. I’m a tad stressed.

Post # 7
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263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Wow that is insane! You have an incredible personality, because they definitely wouldn’t have asked about a reception after my reaction to them bailing on such an important event.

Post # 8
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781 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@windmill:  I feel like we are the same person! Seriously. I’m also not a bridezilla whatsoever. I found one of the cheapest dresses for them to get, and I’m not picky about shoes or anything else! I have asked multiple times for the girls to get their dresses and they all have except for the cousin who decided to up and move. I think it may not be working in our favor to be so lax about things honestly. 🙁 I hope your situation gets better though! I’m trying my hardest to make mine work out.

Post # 10
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781 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@windmill:  You are my savior right now seriously! lol. It’s true. I just need to realize that I just have to let it go. I just realized that we’re date twins and also live like an hour away from eachother.. how strange. 🙂

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