Post # 1
When did you know that your Fiance HAD to be ur future husband?
I knew my Fiance HAD to be my husband on our first date: When he stood behind me and hugged me then kissed me. The kiss said it ALL!!!! I have always heard the term : The world stopped spinning, and I knew that was a sign cuz the world did stop spinning for that moment. LOL
Post # 3
@Mz Izzie: When I missed him so much during the week that it hurt. Our weekends spent together was what got me through the week. They were so much fun. I could have the shittiest day and him showing up on that Friday would instantly change my mood.
Post # 4
The first time we spent time together we went for a drive and talked for hours. It was so effortless and I just felt it in that moment.
Post # 5
@Rouquine: I so agree that you wud have known that was ur Husband to be….When that person can make “the shittiest day” wonderful. Congrats on ur engagement and future. ♥
Post # 6
@Mz Izzie: Thank you! All the same well wishes to you.
Post # 7
@Rouquine: “When I missed him so much … that it hurt.”
Yes! We were in an LDR for over 6 years – I would miss other people when they were gone, but it physically hurt to be away from him all the time.
Post # 8
Back when I first met him and he had me laughing so hard it hurt. Plus he was super good looking, so the combination made him absolutely irresistable!
Post # 9
This. When that person can make “the shittiest day” wonderful.
Fiance and I were trapped working at fireworks stand (read: eating, sleeping, and breathing in a 10×10 tent for 4 days straight) and we never fought once. In fact, its one of my foundest memories.
Post # 10
when shit got real, and I still couldn’t imagine life without him. I remember driving home from his apartment one night, on the phone with my bff, and saying, “well, guess I’m screwed. I’m in love with him.”
Post # 11
SO funny, bc Fiance and I literally had this conversation last night!
I knew he was the one about a month in….he invited me over for dinner, and announced he had a surprise for dessert.
A little bit of background: I grew up in Ottawa and my all-time favourite dessert ever is this french-Canadian dish called sugar pie…it’s very similar to pecan pie minus the pecans, but with more maple in it. I guess I had mentioned it to Fiance in passing because you can basically only find it in Northern Canada, and after moving to southern Ontario I had never been able to find it.
Well he baked me a sugar pie from scratch….which was so sweet, but even better his BFF later told me that he had called every bakery in the city to find one, and when he couldn’t he had found a recipe online that required maple sugar, and when he couldn’t find THAT he spent hours buying all the maple candy he could find and melting it down!
Post # 12
First night we kissed. We had been 100% platonic friends for a year and a half. One day he kissed me and it was like everything in my world changed. I was talking to a friend that night who was like “what now? what does this mean??” and I told her “I don’t know what it means. All I know is I should be careful because I know I’m going to fall head over heels in love with him”
Post # 13
When I realized we are so much the same but so different at the same time! A perfect balance! 🙂
Post # 14
This is so terrible – but it happened when I thought I was pregnant. It turns out I wasn’t, but I let Fiance know. His reaction and overall just being amazing made me realized that I had found my rock.
Post # 15
I knew when he wanted to hang out with me every day after class in undergrad…right after we met because our connection was amazing and we just “clicked”. He was straightforward and no BS or game playing. He also understood where I was coming from, why I was the way I was and accepted me %100 me . Love him.
Post # 16
We met at our mutual friends’ bonfire at a place smartly named “The Hill”. He had his guitar and a charming laugh, and played music in front of the fire. I was completely, totally falling for him. It did help that it seemed like we were the only two there, although we’d only met hours before. We all camped out at the hill that night, and he and I stayed up all night talking…about everything, anything, and absolutely confiding in each other. I knew then that I HAD to marry this man, because if I lost him, I’d be losing a wonderful chance at real love.