Post # 1
Can you tell my little guy is sleeping! haha totally trying to take advantage of this down time!
I posted a few weeks ago about my friend inviting us to her little ones Baptism. DH and I ended up going. We had a nice time, and the resturante was great. I really loved where she had the Baptism. I didn’t want to “copy” her so I’ve been looking at other options and just can’t seem to find a place that I love and DH and I really loved the food/place at her Baptism.
Think it’s okay to hold our Baptism at the same place she held hers? I did ask her if it ws okay and didn’t hear back.
SO would you all care if you were the friend?
Post # 3
How much of an overlap in guest list would there be?
How many restaurants with event spaces are there in your area?
How long ago did you ask her? And how? (e-mail, call?)
Unless the guest list is completely the same or this friend is super sensitive about this stuff, I wouldn’t see it as an issue.
Post # 4
I wouldn’t care for a baptism. I don’t think it’s really an issue.
Post # 5
She will be the only one from her Baptism that is invited. The rest is all of our family. There are tons of resturants, but the problem we are running into is that it’s a Sat Lunch and we have about 17 ppl and either the resturants don’t open for lunch or they don’t have private rooms so you are packed into the resturant with the rest of the lunch crowd. I did find one other place that had a Private area but we had to gt 25 ppl and we don’t plan on having 25 ppl.
She does tend to like to out do people, her baptism was very formal, open bar, centerpieces. I don’t plan on doing that I just want a nice place, with good food that can fit my family. I asked her via email a few days ago.
Post # 6
I don’t think it will be s problem especially since she’s the only one who will have been to both.
Post # 7
I would think it would be fine.