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Bases?

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    MissManga    December 31, 2015  

    I was just thinking about the "bases" people talk about after hearing it on a television show. I don't really have a defined expectation for each base, so it's hard when people talk about it to know what exactly they're saying. What are your definitions of the bases?

     
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    mandalee0624    October 2, 2010  

    I would define bases as being...

    1st: Kiss

    2nd: More making out, lol... how else to say, but "light petting"

    3rd: I'm not sure, but I'd say "heavy petting" if you get my drift... don't know if I'd classify oral sex under here or under "all the way home". :)

     
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    JoesWifey    May 24, 2009   NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    1st- kissing, handholding. Nothing too big

    2nd- making out, a little more touchy feely but nothing below the belt yet

    3rd- below the belt, including oral.

    Home- the rest of the way lol

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    I always thought 

    1st making out

    2nd below the belt hands

    3rd oral

    But-- I know thats a big jump between 1 and 2.... not sure what the "real" way is. :)

     
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    marjojo    July 24, 2010   Nashville

    I've heard it two ways. 

    One, more conservative, the one we used in high school:

    First base is kissing

    Second base is hands above the waist

    third base is hands below the waist

    Home run is sx

     

    Second system, more liberated, the one we used in college:

    First base is kissing

    Second base is anything you do with your hands, above or below the waist

    Third base is oral sex

    Home run is sex

     

    I think this has changed as sexual practices and norms among the younger generation have changed. Oral sex became more common, I guess. 

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    where I grew up, first base meant a kiss, second meant copping a feel, and third meant oral. Home run, of course, meant sealing the deal with sex.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    1)kissing

    2)more then "making out" so petting...

    3)belooow the belt, oral sex included

    4)sex

     

    atleast how I learned it :)

     
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    amariem25    October 2009  

    1 - kissing

    2 - touching the chest area

    3 - touching below or oral sex

    4 - intercourse

     

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