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BEAUTIFUL advice - from a total stranger!

posted 7 months ago in Emotional
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    Grizz    December 2, 2011  

    I'm an ER nurse, and I was getting vitals on a very frail old man yesterday. As I started to glove up, he grabbed my hand and looked at my ring. He said "Young lady, someone loves you very much. If I can tell you anything, I'll tell you to love hard, forgive easily, and never let each other become anything less than the most important thing in each other's lives. You can go out and replace material things, but you can't buy somebody's love. Cherish it always". I may or may not have teared up a little bit :)

    You see all these posts on the Bee about people freaking out on family members about centerpieces, hating their photogs, annoying bridesmaids, etc (I'm guilty too!) but at the end of the day, its not even about that. Thank you to the total stranger who gave me a reminder of what a beautiful thing love and marriage are!

     
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    Miss Longcoat    March 31, 2012   Woodbridge, VA

    @Grizz: Ahhhhhh... thank you for this post.  What a lovely sentiment.

     
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    CanAmBride    September 25, 2010  

    Goosebumps!

     
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    MissRCcar    September 3, 2011   Cincinnati Ohio

    This was something great to read!! Thank you for sharing!

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    Perfect!

    What sweet words of wisdom :)

     
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    bunting    June 18, 2011   Grand Rapids, MI

    So very wise, and so very true. Thank you for sharing!

     
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    SparklyBride2011    June 9, 2012   Los Angeles County Area

    So sweet! There's just something I love about old men.  They're so honest.

     
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    dodgercpkl    October 15, 2010   California

    Wonderful words!

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    That is so sweet and great advice!

     
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    squeak    August 10, 2013  

    So true and wise! Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing! It's exactly what I needed today :)

     
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    MsBrooklynA       Midwest

    What a sweet old man :)

     
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    cyrgycyrg    August 12, 2011   Canada

    This made my day!!!

     
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    TinyTina    June 2012   Albany, NY

    That's amazing. Thank you so much for sharing!

     
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    FutureJessicaMcB    December 17, 2011   Canada

    I love this old man. What an awesome day at work!

     
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    sarahbabs    September 8, 2012   NYC, wedding in the Hudson Valley

    So sweet!  I may or may not have teared up reading it :)

     
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    MrsRuby    June 2011  

    perfect!  love this. what a wise man!!!

     
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    WolvLove    September 2013  

    goosebumps! what a wonderful post thanks for sharing :)

     
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    MrsWilson2012    December 2012   DW St. Thomas USVI

    Sooo sweet! =]

     
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    LOGAHN1981    November 18, 2011   Richmond, VA

    So beautiful and I so needed that today I was having an anxiety attack and reading that made me stop for a moment and helped me calm down a little.

     
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    MissPumpkinPie    October 13, 2012   Jersey Shore

    @Grizz: D'aw.  That was really cute.  I work with geriatrics in my hospital and some of them make me tear up a bit too.  They talk about their spouses often.  It's really sweet.

     
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    cherrydoll    October 25, 2013   So. Califonia

    beautiful words!

     
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    hoogirl05    June 16, 2012   Washington, DC

    Definitely teared up reading that, thank you so much! The part of all of this I look forward to the most is after the wedding when FI and I can start a new stage of our life together - amazing evenn so how easy it is to be distracted by other things!

     
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    CanadianMermaid    December 2012  

    So sweet

     
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    MrsReidizzle    September 22, 2012   Minnesota

    This is such a great reminder to slow down and remember the reason to celebrate. Thank you for sharing this!

     
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    techie    April 2012  

    So beautiful. Thank you for sharing!

     
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    MissPine    June 4, 2013   Hawaii

    Aw, what a lovely man! Thank you for sharing - this was really sweet. I hope that we'll all be sweet old people someday passing on wonderful love advice to the younger generation, too.

    :)

     
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    alyssa742    August 17, 2013   Saint John, New Brunswick

    So sweet. Thank you for sharing!

     
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    Alexis22    March 3, 2012   Orange County, CA

    That is sooo sweet. I totally got all teary eyed.  =o) 

     

    Thanks for sharing. That made my day!

     
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    SunnyBunny    April 28, 2012   Knoxville, TN (wedding in MO)

    That was really sweet, thank you for sharing :)

     
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    MissHelen    November 20, 2010   California

    ^_^

     
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    Mrs Grape    December 10, 2010  

    I may or may not have cried a little at this. :)

     
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    Elolith    February 18, 2016  

    This made me tear up abit inside. What a beautiful thing to say. WOW. <3

     
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    PasteMoo    November 22, 2010   Virginia

    @Grizz:Aww, that made me cry. Thanks for sharing!

     
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    PuppyBiscuits87    April 21, 2012  

    Thank You SOOOOO Much for sharing this!

     
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    reginaphalange    March 10, 2012   Brooklyn

    That's like right out of a movie. I'm surprised you were able to pull yourself together to continue checking on him. I would have been in a mess of puddles on the floor.

     
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    78h2o    October 8, 2011   MD (wedding was in OR)

    Awww, I love it.

     
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    soyjoy222    June 1, 2012   PA

    That is soooo special! Thank you for passing the message on. :)

     
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    Spoonie    September 9, 2012   UK

    I love this so much. Especially love the fact I read this after posting a long post in a thread about people getting sooooooo hung up on their rings. For once, a piece of advice that makes ALL the material stuff irrelevent :) Something I can relate to from the heart :)

     
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    atalante    May 19, 2012  

    @Grizz: Love this. :) Thanks for sharing.

     
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    vintagemodernbride    December 3, 2011   Texas

    definitely made me tear up. what a sweet thing to say to someone :)

     

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