(Closed) Beautiful Bee's, I need your advice…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Honestly I wouldn’t even respond. It’s not a relationship that is healthy for you to be in so I would just let it go. She is probably looking to get a rise out of you.

Post # 4
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606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Mrs.Jansen:  I personally don’t respond to hostile FB messages like that. If you’re ok with not talking to her anymore and have the closure you need, delete. She just wants to stir up drama.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think it’s worth replying and letting her know the things you just wrote here.  She should know that you don’t hate her, but you got burnt out by her actions.  It’s possible she’s never been called out on this behavior, and isn’t aware of how destructive it is.  

Post # 8
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558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Thorpewood

I have a friend exactly like this.  I say just don’t respond and move on.  Odds are she’ll keep hurting you.

Post # 9
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9631 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hmmmm.  I would say something like, “Hi!  We’re great here, hope you are, too.  Take it easy!”  Just ignore the immature part of her message.  Better still, don’t respond at all, who needs drama?

Post # 10
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2462 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@abirdword:  agree. writing something like what you’ve written here doesn’t have to be about opening the door to her again, it could be about giving yourself closure.

Post # 11
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1079 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would ignore it as well.  No sense in dredging up hurt feelings only to relive them, in my opinion.

Post # 13
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2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

You can’t really expect her to read your mind and know she’s hurting you if you don’t say anything. Common sense should dictate that her behaviour isn’t ok and is hurtful. Unfortunately, if you haven’t noticed in this world, common sense isn’t very common. Most people are truly oblivious to these sort of things. I would take the time to let her know how much she’s hurt you over the years, and then decide the future of your friendship based on how she handles that.

Post # 14
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5243 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would ignore. Life is too short to have troublesome people in your life.

Post # 15
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2183 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011 - Florida Aquarium

I’ve been on both ends of this… We’re all adults now, and it was nice of her to think of you. Something simple like, “Thanks so much for asking! We’re doing really well. This summer we zxy. I wish you and yours the best.” If she responds, then figure it from there.

Post # 16
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1408 posts
Bumble bee

She is not well.  I would not get sucked back in her drama.

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