Post # 1
A little background, I moved for my job (which I despise) and SO moved in. Per advice from the bees, I am not budging on moving apartments unless engaged. We’ve talked engagement prior and I’ve been trying my damndest to stay on the Mr. Bees Pact.
So…SO and I were shopping this weekend and dialogue below-
SO- “I really want to move out of our (will remain nameless) town.
Me- “Hun, you can move out whenever you please if you hate it that much. The lease is only in my name.”
SO- “Ya….but I don’t want to go anywhere unless you’re coming too.”
Me- “Well you know what has to happen first.” :points to ring finger:
SO- “I know…” :smirks:
So we now have– acceptance that I’m not moving/quiting job unless engaged, brother moved wedding out of this fall and SO knows I want a fall wedding (see previous post on the ‘possibly..’ engagement), and lastly- SO’s braces coming off in summer…
I think we’re getting closer!!!
Post # 4
Haha…love your title!
Good for you for standing your ground! Good luck and hope things go as planned!
Post # 7
- Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings
I’d say you’re moving closer too!
Post # 8
- Wedding: April 2012 - Padua Hills Theater
That seems like a good sign that it’s coming 🙂
Post # 9
@jpalm13: Your title rocks 😀 You seem to be going closer 😀
Post # 10
Thanks, guys!!! I was soooo happy when he said that and I could replay other things in my head.
And ya… my coworkers were hardly enthusiastic when they asked about my weekend hahah!
Post # 11
Way to stay strong and not budge!! Get it girl….also, pre-congratulations! ; )
Post # 12
Way to stick your guns, lady! Love it!
Post # 13
Anytime my SO talks about marriage or babies with me, I always bust out with “If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it!” hahaha I am so bad at waiting.
Post # 14
Ah and I have to stick to my guns more possibly! SO has an interview tomorrow and if he can get it and get a good salary he may have to move and I’m not quiting my job and moving for my boyfriend. Gosh this is hard! Esp when he wants to ‘talk about it’ but I know its best if I don’t talk toooo much. But he says he understands why I wouldn’t quit and move..