(Closed) Bedroom Tone

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
5291 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2010

I would say it varies from one time to the next depending on our moods, the location, the circumstances, and so on. I would not say we have one standard “tone” except to love, connect, and enjoy each other and ourselves! It is more whatever comes naturally at the time and that can mean many different tones! Sometimes it is playful, sometimes it is smoldering, sometimes it is intense and emotional, sometimes it is sensous and gentle, and so on.

Post # 4
39 posts
  • Wedding: August 2012

My Fiance always says that he turns into a “sexual beast” when we’re in the bedroom. Haha. We get very hot/sexy. =)

Post # 5
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Lovebug12:  +1

It depends on the day really. Often times we start off playful and then it always ends up hot & steamy

Post # 6
1183 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@LRCWedding:  This too. 🙂

Im more of a goofball than Darling Husband. 

Post # 7
130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We get very passionate while having sex usually.  In fact, I always gagged at the term “making love” until I met SO.  But I don’t know what it is… we joke around sooo much in and out of the bedroom, that when it’s that time of the night, a flip switches and I just can’t seem to have enough of him.  It’s so intense that it used to freak me out a little.  

I used to be way more playful during and even just talking about sex, and with how my friends see my SO treat me, they probably think we are probably more fun in the bedroom.  I imagine they would probably be shocked by our actual bedroom tone.  I mean, we are definitely the candlelight, Sade playing, taking an hour type of people–even after living together for five months lol.

I’m trying to get more playful, so any tips from ladies on the opposite side would be much appreciated too! 😉

Post # 8
286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Um yeah we’re pretty goofy. The other day things just weren’t working for whatever reason, one of us kept having to get up to close the blinds or check on something or whatever and we ended up just laughing at ourselves and I was like “this is not our best effort!” I think it’s a comfort level thing for me, when I first sleep with someone I usually want to seem perfect and sex-goddessy but after a while it’s soo much more casual and easier to admit that sometimes sex is pretty goofy. 

Post # 9
485 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

We are pretty goofy. We don’t take ourselves too seriously and have fun with it! 

Post # 10
4660 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

we are very playful too. lots of laughing. especially when trying new things.

Post # 11
5296 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

@kkish3:  haha, definitely playful. we sometimes laugh at all the wrong times. Sometimes it’s more romantic/sensual though. But mostly we laugh.

Post # 12
949 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

We’re… yeah, pretty goofy. I mean, eventually things get serious, sure. But for the most part, any silliness just makes us laugh, doesn’t kill any “mood” or anything.

Post # 13
751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

We’re a very playful couple and that can follow us to the bedroom sometimes but most of the time it’s very intimate, passionate and amazing. 🙂 Even if it starts out playful something happens and it just becomes more passionate. I too always found ‘making love’ a weird term but now I totally understand it.

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