(Closed) Bee bff’s and bridesmaid

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
Hostess
16217 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I wish I were friends with Weddingbee ladies in real life!

Post # 5
Member
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

While certain Bees may be chummy with each other, we are all virtually strangers so no, I would not ask them to be bridesmaids. Those roles are normally filled by family or RL friends. However, there are a number of members who I could definitely see myself being friends with IRL.

As for having favorite bees, of course I do. I’m sure everyone does. I could list them but these threads tend to do more harm than good. There was a thread a few months ago that basically asked the same question. Lots of people jumped in and started naming off their favorite bees but there were quite a few members who weren’t mentioned and it seemed as though their feelings were hurt. 

Post # 7
Member
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I very carefully selected my BMs, so I wouldn’t have any bees as one, but I certainly do feel a connection with several bees. It’s a rare time when I don’t feel like I would get along with a bee in real life, though. 

Post # 8
Member
5273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I’ve been on this site for quite some time (like over 2 years,) and I don’t have an emotional connection to anyone on here – I use this site to browse weddings (b/c although mine is over I LOVE weddings) & ask advice.

But this is just me, I don’t get emotionally involved w/ strangers over the internet…

But there are several bees who have beautiful weddings, homes, etc – and I enjoy casually interacting w/ them 🙂   

Post # 9
Member
4110 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

You can ask anyone you like to be your bridesmaid. I could definitely see meeting up with a local bee & becoming close eventually. But unless you know you jive well together IRL, you may be in for a huge surprise personality-wise. On the internet people can form thier persona however they want- they can be whatever they want to be really. Including “popular” on weddingbee, haha. 

Post # 10
Member
72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I would LOVE to meet some bees in my future city of residence since it has been pointed out to me from future fil and my friends at home that I am going to hate it and I don’t know anyone, and it’s not going to be the same. lol I was feeling good about it and the new opportunities for a “Fresh” start, but they are definitely downers. I know they are sad that I’m leaving and fil is concerned about my well being, so if there are any West Ga/Atlanta bee’s out there, shoot me a message.

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