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BEE stealing my DIY photos for her own business purposes

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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    Can a MOD help me out here?  A bee has posted pics of my DIY project to make money in the classifieds. The post is here.  Please delete her post for this extremly RUDE and absolutely ridiculous behavior. I did not spend almost 20 hours of my time making my table numbers for someone else to steal my photo and try to say it is there work.  Do not buy anything from thefuturemrs.morgan.

    http://classifieds.weddingbee.com/topic/monogram-cake-toppers-1

     
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    GreenEyedMoon    January 14, 2012   Dallas

    Wow.  You would think she would at least use a different site than the same one she stole them from.

     
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    hthesken    September 15, 2012   ohio

    Wow. I will never fully understand people. That's just ridiculous!

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    How do I report her?  I do not want to have to delete all my DIY projects because some low life is stealing photos. The bee will not allow me to "flag" her post with my photo.  I am wicked pissed off

     
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    MeganTacky2247    May 5, 2012   Cincinnati, OH

    WOW! thats messed up!

     
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    GreenEyedMoon    January 14, 2012   Dallas

    @TheFutureMrsLamkin:  I would email one of the mods.

     
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    regberadaisy    August 14, 2010  

    @TheFutureMrsLamkin:

    I think you need to message a MOD directly.

    Taking down your pics won't help because she probably already has them saved on her desktop.

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    Send a message with the link and which pictures are yours to the Support team (upper left corner of the screen next to Ideas)

     
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    mandypop    September 15, 2012   BAHHHston

    Wow.  People are creepy, I hope the mods take care of it.

    As an aside,  how did you find it 2 minutes after it was posted!?!

     
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    hthesken    September 15, 2012   ohio

    It wouldn't let me flag it either. Weird

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    @TheFutureMrsLamkin: like MrsSl82be said, please post to Support. Include links to anywhere you've found her using your photos, specify which photos are yours, and give us a link to where you've posted the photo (where she copied it from) so we can verify that it's your photo.

    Thanks, and sorry about this!

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @daydreamwanderer:I had just sent you a PM....

     
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    MissPumpkinPie    October 13, 2012   Jersey Shore

    Woooooow, but I guess anyone can do that these days as long as it's not reserved, copyrighted, etc.  It's a damn shame and pretty scary.

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @daydreamwanderer:Posted in support. Thank you

     

    @MissPumpkinPie:True, my photo is not copyrighted, however, this is on the same site!  Trying to pawn off someone else's work is low.  The bee is no place for those kind of people.

     
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    atalante    May 19, 2012  

    Photos should always be credited. The original comment/ad didn't say the numbers were an example. They said the numbers were availble.

    It is actually not automatically OK to appropriate content found on the internet. Copyrights afford legal protection. But using someone else's work and failing to cite it is still plagiarism/theft.

    Handy link about using photos from the internet.

     
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    retreadbride    July 31, 2011   bristol PA

    I am confused about this post.  Why is the entrepeneural bee doing anything wrong? Granted she chould have credited your design but is she taking away from your day? Is she doing something specifically to you?

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @retreadbride:yeah, pissing me off by placing my photo in her ad claiming that she is selling the numbers.  I'm all about inspiring others with my DIY projects, which is why i posted them.  However, do your own work and post your own pictures, especially when you're trying to sell them?  That's just false advertising and deception to anyone who wishes to purchase from her. 

     
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    Happy2bMrs    September 2011  

    @retreadbride

    She took the OP's picture and passed it off as her own work.  She should have asked the OP first if it was ok the use the pic, and only THEN, should she have used it.  She should have also given the OP credit for HER work, instead of passing it off as her own.

    It's just a cheap and sketchy thing to do - especially on the same forum!

     
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    retreadbride    July 31, 2011   bristol PA

    I have no pony in this race....

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    Now she claims that she did give me credit in her ad, and that she didn't do anything wrong. 

    I'd like to keep my projects up to inspire other Bees, but i will be deleting all of them.  This really angers me for i have made these for other Bees and plan on doing so again after my wedding.  So insanely rude.

     
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    retreadbride    July 31, 2011   bristol PA

    @TheFutureMrsLamkin:  based on your last comment this real issue is you are in business compettion? you are making these items, and she is making these items?  

     

     
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    atalante    May 19, 2012  

    I didn't see a spot where she gave you credit when I looked a few minutes ago.

     

    What about replacing them with photos that have a watermark thingy (I don't know what it's called) on them? Just in the corner.

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @retreadbride:Bottom line is, again, the photo is of my work, not hers.  You cannot use someone else's work and try to say it is your own.  I am done explaining now.

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @atalante:I am just deleting all my photos.

     
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    rosworms    October 10, 2012   Sea Breeze Point in Disney World

    do not delete your photos. admins will need to be able to look at your old post of the photo so that they can see you posted it first and that it's yours. it's your proof, basically.

     
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    galloway111    June 16, 2012   WI

    @retreadbride: It doesn't matter if it's business or not. If I work hard on something for 20 hours, post a picture, and someone else uses that picture to say "Hey! Look what I can make!" that's just wrong.

     
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    Happy2bMrs    September 2011  

    @TheFutureMrsLamkin

    I don't think you should have to delete all of your photos.  I think this is probably a fairly isolated case, and hopefully the mods will address it with her. 

    Sorry this is happening to you!  But don't feel you have to delete all of your fun work.  Other brides can use it as inspiration, as you intended.

     

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @rosworms:Her post has already been deleted, but I'm not playing this game with bees like that floating around here.

     

    @galloway111:exactly.  I didn't understand why i had to explain that to anyone...???

     
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    rosworms    October 10, 2012   Sea Breeze Point in Disney World

    NM you just responded to me while i was typing this.

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    @TheFutureMrsLamkin: I flagged this post to bring a moderator's attention to the situation.

     
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    retreadbride    July 31, 2011   bristol PA

    Once a photo is on the web its out there forever. Case in point.  I sold my first dress online and since then I have seen MY body/my dress sold at least 4x.  I just considered it a compliment. Whoever was selling the dress thought I looked better in it than they did.

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @Gemstone:It has already been resolved.  Her post was deleted, and I deleted my photos. 

     

    @retreadbride:That's a completely different scenario.  And imitation is the highest form of flattery, but make your own products before you try to sell someone else's.

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    @TheFutureMrsLamkin: Usually the mods like to know what's going on in the community. Just wanted you to know they'll be aware. :)

     
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    plantains    July 17, 2011   Live in NY, wedding in CT

    @retreadbride:

    I honestly don't understand why you think this is okay.

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @Gemstone:I agree!

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @plantains:Same here!

     
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    futuremrsmp    September 24, 2011   nyc

    @retreadbride:  that's great, but the difference is you did not create the dress.  see?

     
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    MsJeep23    May 14, 2011   Washington, D.C.

    @retreadbride: That's an entirely different scenario.

    I deal with photo and copyright a lot in my line of work. I hear, "once its on the internet, it's free" quite a bit. This is not true although it is a common misunderstanding. Atalante's link explains it very well.

     
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    TheFutureMrsLamkin    November 5, 2011   South Jersey

    @atalante:great link! I think this is something the Bee should have up for all to see.

     

     
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    MissPumpkinPie    October 13, 2012   Jersey Shore

    @TheFutureMrsLamkin: By no means do I think it's right though.  I was just simply saying.

     

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