Bees getting married this year, have you had any wedding nightmares (dreams)?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Oh yeah. I have this recurring one that the wedding has to be moved to a gas station. ANd it’s not even a big, nice one like a QuikTrip or an OnCue. It’s like an old, janky one where everything seems to be dimly lit and covered in a light film of motor oil.No one shows up on time (or at all in some cases) or takes it seriously, my dress gets filthy, and I just keep thinking about how this is my special day–how it was my responsibility to host the people I love in a manner that at least minimally accommodates them, and how I completely and utterly failed. How I could have done better, if I had just been more capable and worked harder, but I procrastinated/didn’t do it, and now I will never have another chance.

 

After this dream, the sense of disappointment and regret I feel sometimes lasts the entire day.

 

ETA: Seems like a common theme here is not having one’s shit together. It’s not like we are having nightmares about tornadoes or fires. It’s all stuff that’s preventable.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@DesertLady:  At least once or twice a month! And I wake up horrified, in a gross sweat. I’ve had dreams of everything from my hair and makeup people not showing up, to no DJ, to not having the correct photographer…most of my dreams I’m sitting in a robe at like 5pm just chillin when I should be on my way to our ceremony. 🙁 CRAZY and I know they’re only going to get worse as we get closer to the date.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I’ve had a dream that I had to have security kick out my great-grandmother. In the dream, she pitched a fit and tried to set the venue on fire… Not sure where that came from to be honest, because she’s really old and can’t really cause any trouble.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Oh I had one a couple nights ago where I was rushing to do my makeup but we ended up sitting around forever after before the wedding started and then when I went to check myself in the mirror my face had all melted off and looked awful. I tried to salvage it but it was a disaster. Just makes me want to practice my DIY makeup again before Friday!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Yes! I’ve been having them more often. Mine seem to revolve around the fact that I’m forgetting something. One was that I completely forgot to order flowers and the second was that I forgot to pick up my dress. I always wake up panicked and realize I’ve got 8 months to go..haha.

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

ALL the time. I don’t feel worried about the wedding but I have nightmares about it all the time. It usually has to do with my dress/hair not working out. I had one the other night that I never ordered flowers and had to run to the grocery in my dress.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’m not engaged yet, but I keep having recurring dreams about my SO proposing to me with really bizarre rings. I blame Weddingbee.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I planned everything in about 30 days flat-researched and booked all the vendors.

During those 30 days I was sleep deprived and tossed and turned at night because my never ending to do list kept playing in my head. I had dreams but I have no idea about what specifically….

I hope I don’t get any detailed wedding nightmares. So far so good.

 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@DesertLady:  I’d say they started in October..right when we were under 1 year til the big day..I hope you don’t either! I am totally type A and obsessive, so that’s probably why I get them frequently. Embarassed

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I keep having the nightmare that we are getting married in my parents backyard and they didn’t put a piece of wood over the pool so people were walking right into the pool, like they were blind, in nice suits and all. I’ve had this same dream three times, and I’ve only been engaged since July. 

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