Bees I snooped!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
684 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@littlemissbossy:  It’s super hard I know, the anticipation and excitement is overwhelming!! My ring has been in the house for over a month now and I’ve stayed strong and not looked at it!! I gave in to a tiny temptation once and tried it on to check the size, but I did it with the lights off and my eyes closed the entire time…..I know, I’m a weirdo! Even though you know what your ring is going to look like, it’ll still take your breath away when you see it being offered to you by your SO. Here are two things to keep in mind the next time you’re tempted to snoop:

1. When I asked my SO if he was going to hide it, he said if I looked at it, it would be my problem. I realized he was right, I want that complete moment where this man I love so much asks me be his wife and gives me the ring. I’d only be cheating myself if I snooped further.

2. The proposal is as much his as it is yours, it’s a significant moment in a man’s life. Let him do it when and how he wants to, and let him have that moment of making you so happy.

Stay strong and congratulations!!

Post # 5
Member
1241 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@littlemissbossy:  My SO has had the ring since Feb. It’s hard, but in the end, it will be worth it to give them that moment they want. Just focus on exams and then practice that elusive patience.

Post # 6
Member
2311 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Uh oh! I hate to say it but it’s all game over for you now. You are NOT going to stop thinking abt it until you have it. Hehe!

Post # 8
Member
681 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

My FI tested me by leaving the ring bag on the kitchen table when I was home alone!! I totally snooped, but he had taken the box (and ring) out of the bag… sneaky FI!!

Post # 9
Member
163 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: Camp Hope

We are date twins littlemissbossy!! That will be our 8 year anniversary. He ordered my ring two days ago and it is killing me just knowing that it will ship and I won’t know it. i really think it is natural for waiting bees to want to snoop. I agree that you will not be able to stop thinking about it now.

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