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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    Just curious if any bees out there have asked their DH/SO/BF to quit self pleasure or at least cut down, in research hubby and I have done it recommends that males if not drastically cut down, or quit all together. He has done exactly that, except when I have monthly visitor, then he is allowed.

    have you had the talk?

    Do you think it is crazy?

     
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    octobermom    November 19, 2009  

    Nope I dont think you are crazy. I read many of the TTC books out loud to my DH so i think he got the picture.... you should not put the lap top computer directly on your lap, boxers can be beneficial while ttc, cut back on alcohol. Poor thing i think he could recite the entire chapter back to me...lol.

     
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    wbrn    September 2009   Minny

    He's been real good at taking vitamins and not masturbating, he never puts our lap top directly on his lap, now alcohol he has cut back on but i'd like to see him cut back some more!

     
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    octobermom    November 19, 2009  

    LOL, i used to bug my DH about taking his vitamin, and now he announces when he takes his.

     
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    carrieknitscake    October 10, 2009   Chicago, IL

    @octobermom: I got my husband gummy vitamins after he tried my gummy prenatals. Since they're gummy, he likes them. I don't have to watch him struggle choking down pills now.

     
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    stargal34    August 21, 2010  

    @carrieknitscake- what is with hubbys wanting to try the prenatal gummys? mine keeps stealing mine, and i keep telling him he's going to grow boobs or something. LOL.

    @wbrn- we talked about things he shouldnt do when ttc like baths, laptops, etc. also be sure hes not "saving up" to much sperm lol and ejaculates every couple days, ive read its bad to let it build up.

     
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    MapleBecky    July 9, 2011   Canada

    I only would if there was a sperm quality (IF) issue.  Most people without fertility issues wouldn't be affected by that.

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    I actually read that masturbation can be good because it keeps flushing out old sperm. BUT he definitely shouldn't do it within 24 hours of BD time.

     
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    monalisa670    August 2009   Boston

    @Mrs Green Grass:I've heard that too, what happens if it builds up and how regular are we talking that they should flush, one way or another? Every few days, once/week?

    And I wasn't really going to ask him to quit but he doesn't do it all that much anyway, or so he says :) I would probably be pretty mad if he were wasting the swimmers, at least during the week I was going to O!

     
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    stargal34    August 21, 2010  

    @monalisa- ive heard every couple days (every other day to 3 days, i think)  is good, ive heard not to go more then 5 days without him "flushing" them out. LOL

     

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