Post # 1
i know i haven’t posted on here very much but i really need some love right now..
it really has been the worst day ever today.
firstly me and FI found out he hadn’t got a job he’d applied for which we were basically so excited about and thought was the ‘one’
my FI has been struggling to get a job for the last year and he is literally on the edge of a breakdown about it cause it makes him feel so usless and rejected. and i really don’t know how to to help him or make him feel any better
secondly just after hearing the job news i found out that the place where we are having our evening recption for our wedding in 3 months time has just burned down… totally gutted from the fire and will take 6 months to restore apparently…
seriously why all in one day?!!
also all my housemates are out for the evening and not seeing my FI till for like 5 hours and i feel so alone and bleeeurrrggghhh!
sorry to offload its just been a day of rubbish!
i know in the grand scheme of life these are little things but it feels pretty massive right now if that makes sense
Post # 3
*hugs* I would feel very down too! I am so sorry about your FI. I hope you can find a wonderful, even better place to have the reception. I know things will work out in the end.
Post # 4
I hope your FI finds a job and you find the most amazing place to get married
Post # 5
I’m so sorry. I know a bit how you feel. FI has been working four jobs making a pittance at each and trying to earn his lpc for his master’s degree in counseling, and he’s moving down here after the wedding. We thought he was a shoe in for a youth pastor job down here but then learned they just don’t have the budget. We were so devastated. He’s so afraid about money, and he’s just been trying to pray about it. We’re just taking it one day at a time.
I’m so sorry about your reception site. That certainly can’t be easy. Weddings are so stressful, especially when money is an issue. I wish I had some amazing advice, but I would have no clue what to do. I hope you find another place that is as wonderful or better than your original site.
Post # 6
yeah the job my FI went for was a worship leader role which would literally have been his dream job and yeah the money thing… with getting married he wants to be the provider and provide for me and i think he’s really feeling the pressure from that 🙁
all we can do is pray and hope god’s got a better plan… which I know he does!
Post # 7
I’m am so deeply sorry to hear of your troubles. Big, big hugs from California. You and your FI are so strong and will persevere through this difficult time. Hold onto each other and face the storm. Use this time alone to pamper yourself and take good care of yourself. Feed your spirit and relax. Gear yourself up to confront each issue one at a time, one step at a time. Your wedding day will be beautiful and you will find a gorgeous place for the reception. Your FI will find a job that will be a perfect match and you will both live happily ever after. 🙂
Post # 8
Aww, I’m sorry you are going through all of this. I hope some good comes out of it or something good comes soon. Feel free to vent away. Hugs!!