- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
I am currently planning my wedding set for May 2012. My best friend got engaged 2 months after me. I had already set my date in May and booked the venue. My Boyfriend or Best Friend then booked her date and venue 3 weeks before my wedding. She has asked me to be her Maid of Honor (of course I accepted). I asked about her bachelorette party ideas, and she indicated she wanted to do a long weekend beach trip or a cruise! I am just stressing about the financial strain her wedding is going to have on mine (I am having to pay for my wedding myself and currently have a strict buget and savings plan). What should I do? How do I approach this situation? Should I resign as Maid/Matron of Honor or suck it up and go in debt!? Do you think its fair for her to expect me to spend hundreds of dollars on her bachelorette weekend get-away?