Being thrown a bridal shower but I didn't want a big registry…

posted 3 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1662 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I think it would be ok to add to it if needed. You could use it to replace all your older stuff, maybe everything if you have a small place. Donate your old stuff, voila enough room. You could also spread the word that you don’t need tons of stuff and that shower presents aren’t necessary. People generally like that, but it might not net you any less. 🙂

If you DON’T add to it, you might end up with cash that you could use to buy something big that you may need, like a new bed/fancy mattress. That might be good too.

Post # 6
4511 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You DO “have a say.” It is not rude to decline them throwing you a shower and explain that you simply don’t have room for more things. What IS rude, is for your guests to arrive at the store and to not have enough things on the registry for them to buy!

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