Being too picky?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
42166 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@GingerSnapped19:  Feelings are never wrong. They help us process things in our life. How you act on those feelings is what counts.

You do not need to have the same number of attendamts on each side. In your case, I would stay with the 4 girls you have.

Post # 5
1981 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@GingerSnapped19:  I can see that it may be difficult for you to be around moms-to-be if you can’t have children.  I would just stick to the 4 BMs you already have- the two sides don’t need to be equal 🙂

ETA: 3 would be even better! Then each BM could have a GM on each arm in the recessional 😉



Post # 6
1168 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@GingerSnapped19:  I totally and completely understand your feelings. I would say whats more important to you a balanced even numbered bridal party or feeling envious of others during your wedding events towards those bridesmaids…?

I dont know what makes the difference though, theyll still be at your wedding. Whats the difference if they are in your wedding party? All I can think of is the pictures and/or youll be around them slightly more. 

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