- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
Wedding is next weekend, I’m so excited and cannot wait for the day!
My best friend currently lives with me and I really love having her around. I’ve never expressed any feeling of fustration that she lives with me and fi and we are all good friends. However this week she has been a bit distant, staying out, not replying to my messages and today expressed that she would be looking to move out in the new year as she’s feeling a bit like a spare part and she thinks that the wedding his making her realise what “she hasn’t got”
I totally appreciate where she is coming from, and I adore her like a sister so I’d always want to make sure she was ok in any given situation but it’s making me sad. The Fi is out tonight and I suggested we make it a girly one, nice food, wine and some films etc and she said she didn’t really want to do that because she had a big lunch and would probably just go for drinks after work.
Feeling a bit gutted as she’d usually be all over that idea and now she’s just saying she’d rather go out without me. Tonight would probably be the last evening before the wedding when it was just the 2 of us. We’ve been through so much together I thought this experience would be something to share and now I feel like it’s pushing her away!
Is there anything I can do to salvage a bit of happy memory between us before next week?