- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
A little history…….my best friend and I have known eachother since 3rd grade. I got pregnant with my son when I was a senior in high school, she was there for me, helped, basicly did everything she could for us, but only when she was getting something in return! Let it slide, I always said, no big deal! We went to cancun together, and from the moment I got to her house, she was already complaining. She was mad at her mom about something, and then they werent getting ready fast enough, and they needed her GPS. She was just complaining and was in such a horrible mood! I did the best I could to make her feel better and put her in a better mood. On the plane, she was rude and nasty to everyone, inlcuding her mother who paid for her to go on the trip!! While in Cancun, she didnt want to do anything i wanted to do, so of course we did what she wanted. We got into a big fight the second day we were there. All I wanted to do was go home. Long story short, we ended up agreeing that it was best if she wasnt in the wedding party because she didnt have the money to pay for her dress, and she was always complaining about everything that I picked out or wanted. Anyways………after we got home, she said that she still wanted to help with anything she could for the wedding, even though she wasnt in it. Everytime I call her to help me do something (keep in mind I give her plenty of notice) she says yes I will come and help and then blows me off, and I end up having to ask my fiance to help me. Of course he does, but the point is, it was supposed to be girl time!!! Then last week, she called me on a Tuesday to ask me if she could come over on Thursday for me to cut her hair, FREE OF CHARGE mind you!!! Of course I said yes! She never SHOWERED or CALLED!!! I let it go, I didnt say anything about it! She then called me this Wed and asked of our plans for today, Christmas Eve. She said that she wanted to come over and see my son who adores her, and that she got him a gift! Of course we got her a gift too! I told her our schedual and what time would be best. I gave her a two hour window or time, 2-4. She said that she would be here at 2 on the dot!!! Hahaha, yeah right, 2:30 I get a text saying sorry I have way to much going on today and wont be able to make it! Long long sotry short……my son ended up in tears because she wasnt coming…..and our whole friendship just went out the window!!! She always does this. Says she is coming, and never shows!!!! Or she will get on the phone with my son, get him all excited that she is coming and NEVER SHOWS!!!!!! I cant deal with it anymore! She is being such a horrible friend!!!!! Why does she do this!??? Why would a grown women tell a child that she is coming, and then never show and never call?? This is NOT the first time that she has blown us off or not shown up. This is all the time. EVERYTIME she says she is coming, she doesnt! I am just sooooooo fed up!!!!
Sorry, but I am really upset and i needed to vent!