(Closed) :( best friends fiance called moissanite a POS.

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

He was likely just pissed that his fiancee freaked at him and didn’t actually mean to call a moissy a POS.  I wouldn’t take it personally at all, especially since you said he’s a dick anyway 🙂

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I understand it was hurtful, but in fairness to him, he wasn’t talking at all about your ring. He was defending himself against baseless accusations from his FI. And, as you yourself admitted, you weren’t meant to even see that particular text.

All that matters is that you’re happy with your ring, period. 

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper

I’m not trying to excuse his language, but he probably was just upset that his fiancee was freaking out at him and accusing him of lying to her.  He might not even know what moissanite is!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1998

@Omgbunnies:  Girl dont think twice about it. You got something you wanted and love and dont let someone who texted something takes that away. Brush it off and get over it. Who gives a rotten pickle what anyone says….does it make you love your ring less?

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I am confused how you’re upset by this.  Moissanites are waaaaay cheaper than a similar quality diamond.  That’s a fact, not an opinion.  If your friend’s FI spent $$$$$ on a diamond ring, but then got accused of spending a fraction of that on a Moissy…how do you think he’ll react?  And obviously he wasn’t talking about you or to you, so in the end, how does this even affect you at all?

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Omgbunnies:  Try not to feel badly about it.  He sounds like an asshat. 😐 Or maybe he was just pissed off because she was yelling at him or he thought he paid for something that wasn’t what he thought it was and said things he didn’t really mean.

And I’m sure your ring is gorgeous.  Who the heck cares whether it’s a diamond or moissanite or whatever -it’s pretty and sparkly and pretty. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee

Why does everyone feel the need to sugarcoat? This man probably does think of moissanite in that way. There are plenty of non assholes who think the SAME way and they know all of the “facts” and STILL believe the same way. Fact is  BFD.  Opinions are like a$$holes. If u love it-love it. It’s your ring. Just realize that somone will think your ring is a piece of crap. And that’s ok too 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Screw what he thinks.  You love it and that’s all that matters.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Well look at this this way, assholes don’t like your ring. Do you really want a ring that assholes like? Of course not.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Eh, it’s one guy’s opinion. The only one that matters about your ring is yours.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Lady, you really shouldn’t care…  He was just being defensive.  I’m not saying he was being a total ass though…  A LOT of guys feel the same way about real diamonds vs. lab-created diamonds.  You know why?  Because of the importance so many women place on materialistic things.

Your friend freaked out when she thought her diamond was fake.  I’m not calling your friend a bad person, but I do think that her reaction might indicate that she places more value on the stone on her ring than on her guy.  Or she thinks that he’s a lying jerk, which either way shouldn’t have warranted a public freak-out from her.

Just a thought 😉

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Not everyone likes Moissy and some people do think they are POS. Who cares?

 

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