Post # 1
Ok so heres the deal my FIs best man is kind of a jerk. But anyways, the best mans girlfriend has a best friend. Well her best friend got engaged around Christmas. Then after knowing the date of my Fi and I’s wedding she scheduled her wedding for the day after.. So now the best man and his gf apparently have rehursal stuff to do on our wedding… I feel like this is a little bogus for my FI. I personally could care less if he is there, but I know it would crush my FI. How do I defuse this.. if possible.. I need some good advice and positive vibes 🙂 Thanks Bees!!
Post # 3
Well, he can’t be two places at the same time. He can either attend their rehearsal or your wedding. I think your SO has to call him and tell him to choose. That sucks that he is such a bad friend 🙁
Post # 4
Thanks i will tell him he should talk to him.. I just think its suckey cause the best man isnt even in the other wedding.
Post # 5
@organizedbride11: If that’s the case there is absolutely no excuse for him to not be at your wedding. If his girlfriend has to go and meet up with him later at your reception then so be it. But him skipping out on his best man duties for the rehearsals of a wedding he isn’t even in doesnt make any sense and is totally unacceptable. It’s actually such big load of BS that I can hardly believe someone would pull that. Your FI needs to shoot straight with him on this one.
Post # 6
@organizedbride11: The Best Man needs to either be at your wedding, or step down now.
If his gf can’t come, so be it, but he has committed to being your FI’s best man and he needs to honor that.
Post # 7
@organizedbride11: if he isn’t even in the other wedding, then he absolutely needs to make your wedding a priority or step down. That’s ridiculous
Post # 8
Your FI needs to talk to him about this.. I think its a bit ridiculous that the other couple are having their wedding the day after yours.
Post # 9
Thank you ladies I wanted to post and make sure that I wasnt having a bridezilla “my wedding is the center of the universe” moment..