Post # 1
I’m just so frustrated right now. Ten days out from the wedding and FI’s best man has gone incognito. Men’s Wearhouse said that the groomsmen can order there tux’s up to 15 days prior to the wedding, and after that there would be a rush fee. Well, everyone but the best man has gotten theirs. We talked to him Thursday (Friday being the last day at normal price) and he promised he was getting it the next day. Well we haven’t heard from him since. He isn’t answering calls, texts, or facebook messages and he’s states away so I don’t know what else to try. I’m afraid he is just bailing on us without explanation which hurts my feelings but hurts my wonderful fiance alot more. I just don’t know what else to do. I hate seeing him be upset.
Post # 3
I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Do you think he can’t afford it and is afraid to say something?
Post # 4
That is what we are thinking, but if that is the case we would take care of it for him. But it’s hard to tell him that when we can’t get ahold of him.
Post # 5
I would go ahead and begin making your plan B. Have your FI call him once more and let him know that you are now 9 days to the wedding and he has yet to get the tux. So he needs to by Friday or you will need to ask someone else to be the Bestman.
I’m sorry you are going through this. I’ve got my MOH who is prego and can’t walk down the asile or stand for long periods of time and is now not going to participate. I’m so glad I had asked two girls to be the MOH so I still have one.
Btw.. we are wedding twins! ONLY 9 more days!