(Closed) best man of the wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: My FI wants his 11 year old Daughter as his BEST MAN...thoughts?
    sweetest thing I have ever heard : (17 votes)
    50 %
    just plain weird : (6 votes)
    18 %
    I see no problem with this, if this is what he really wants : (11 votes)
    32 %
    I would demand he have a friend up there to walk down the aisle with my MOH : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    14503 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Who is going to sign the marriage certificate?  You would just need someone to do that.

    Post # 4
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    7976 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    @tksjewelry: In the state where I got married, any witness can sign the certificate – doesn’t have to be BM or MOH.

    I think it’s really sweet, and an awesome way to involve your FSD in the wedding!

    Post # 5
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    139 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I  think its a bit of a stretch.  Usually you can tell your best friend a lot of things…like troubles at work…an 11 yr old will not “get it”

    I personally think Jr Bride or Bridesmaid would be an appropriate duty for his daughter.  That way, she is still included in the wedding.  I think your guy is just avoiding hurting his friends feelings.  *kanye shrug*

    Post # 6
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    1940 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think this is adorable and a lovely way to include his daughter.  It would make it more of a “family wedding” instead of just you and her father.  I love the idea of the daughter standing by her father’s side during the ceremony – she is likely closer to him rather than you at this point, so standing up for him is great in my opinion.

    Edit: This is coming from someone who chose family other friends too.  I didn’t include any of my closest, day-to-day friends who I’ve known throughout grad school in my wedding.  Instead, I chose my sister to be my MOH (she’s 5 years younger than me) and my only female cousin to be my BM (she’s 7 years younger than me).  These are not people I turn to every day for advice (they are in a different point in life than I am), but they are family.  For me, weddings are about family.

    Post # 8
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    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I think that is so sweet!!! What an awesome guy you have!

    Post # 9
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    594 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Well… I think that its YOURs and HIS wedding…

     

    Who cares what anyone else will think or say.  ITs whatever ever makes you guys happy

     

    Usually its the bride who has all the quirky things she’d like included in her wedding… but for a groomm to make an out there decision like this is something very special.

     

    I give him KUDOS!

     

    YOu have yourself a winner Miss Lady!

    Post # 10
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    1335 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I think that is so sweet and touching. It sounds like a great way to involve and honor their relationship and your coming together as a family. He really sounds like a great guy 🙂

     

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