posted 3 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: How do i confront him to see what was wrong?
    Dont ask : (14 votes)
    27 %
    call and ask : (10 votes)
    20 %
    plan a lunch to discuss : (19 votes)
    37 %
    forget it you shouldve asked the day of the wedding : (8 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
    1116 posts
    Bumble bee

    @kenya.latham.1:  maybe he was just letting you enjoy your day, and he was sitting with people he wanted to catch up with. I wouldnt worry, maybe just give him a call and thank him for coming And say you we’re happy to have him there with you.

    Post # 4
    10384 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’m sure he said hi and bye before the ceremony, during pictures, etc. You said yourself you were pulled back and forth all night – i’d just let this go. Also, all caps on the internet is considered screaming/yelling – just FYI!

    Post # 8
    1116 posts
    Bumble bee

    @kenya.latham.1:  well, the day was about you and not about him. Weddings are very busy days and he shouldn’t have expected you to be there Every second. I think That was selfish of him and be should be apologizing to you if that’s the case. I still think you ahould call and thank him and ask if he enjoyed himself.  If he seems fine and doesnt bring this up himself, then I would let it go. No need to let him ruin your day because he felt like you neglected him on your wedding day! 

    Post # 10
    920 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2018

    It sounds like he’s hurt too so maybe you two should actually discuss this and try to fix it.


    Post # 12
    729 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Refusing to take pictures is weird. I’d have a conversation about it, and see what hesays.

    Post # 13
    4135 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Some people just don’t like to have pictures taken… 

    I would make a lunch date and see if he’s still acting a bit off. If not it may have been just an off day for him or something. 

    Post # 15
    1214 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999


    EDIT: just read your other posts after posting my reply…deleting as I misread!

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