BF is planning something…

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

How plausible is it that he has $ for a ring, considering I remember in previous posts of yours that he can’t afford to move out of his parents house?  

I think you should just start telling yourself repeatedly that there’s no way he will propose and just enjoy the trip. If he does, it will be a nice surprise but if you convince yourself it isn’t happening then you won’t be disappointed.

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@LadyBlackheart:  Gotcha. Well if he’s using a family ring, then I’d say it’s a good sign he’s planning a surprise! But, like I said having zero expectations is always best – that way you can never be disappointed.

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@LadyBlackheart:  haha I hear you! Have you guys talked about engagement at all yet?

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@LadyBlackheart:  I think that this is the bad part about the waiting game. Everytime they do something mysterious, we expect something. It’s tragic really. It makes it harder on us when it doesn’t happen, and then they are all upset because they didn’t realize we were waiting.

Just try to enjoy the time with him. You won’t be able to silence your little voice all the way, but if you lose it, try not to do it in front of him. That way leads to badness. -hugs-

Sounds like you have a keeper though.

Post # 10
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Helper bee

I’ll add to the chorus of “no expectations, no disappointments” haha. It is really cool that he is planning it by himself though :). You just get to show up and have fun!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

@LadyBlackheart:  That’s so nerve wracking! I agree not to get your hopes up, but at the same time, how do you NOT get your hopes up? 

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