BF not keen to marry. Advice

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Maybe he’s telling you that he doesn’t want a “wedding”? My FI was not desperate to get married and it turns out that it’s because he was scared of having a big wedding. I am too, which I could have told him if he’d told me – but in his ‘man way’ he didn’t realise you could just have a small do. It was more about the ‘wedding’ than the ‘marriage’. He’s fine with marriage! 

 

Post # 5
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50 posts
Worker bee

Omg this sounds like my bf… Talks babies houses. Retirement?? All funicular aspects of life marriage no. Then if I mention it I’m pushing it” however at my friends wedding earlier this year he was a little tipsy talking about who would be in his wedding party! and what kind of wedding he wants to have! (Mind you we HAVE talked about this at one point even rings! But then work went crappy and he wasn’t happy and then went the marriage talk… Now he has a new job well see if things change! Just know you’re not alone!

Post # 7
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58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Sounds like my SO too!

At our 3 years he wasn’t keen on marriage, but we were planning for children. Took me 2 years of nagging and now we’re finally engaged!

I’m sure he’ll come round 🙂

Post # 9
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58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@genusbee:  Thanks 🙂 I think he just warmed up to the idea eventually – and that I want a small wedding helped too!

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