BF pulls away fro 2 weeks after ring talk

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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419 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

First of all, welcome to the Bee!

Second, I think you are overthinking it. He has proabably not made the connection from that conversation to the fight about the car or him being busy. If he is “suddenly back to normal”, I be he was honestly just busy. He could have been doing some ring shopping, and since you were clear that he was to do that on his own, he would have to ditch you somehow to do it. 

Third, I am curious as to why you are hard on the line of him picking the ring himself, when you have something specific you want. Seems like you are setting yourself up for a dissapointment. If he asks you to go with him and you don’t go, what you show him is merely a suggestion -he has the right to buy what he sees fit, without you being upset at the end. He gave you the opportunity for direct input, and you shot it down. 

 

If everything is back to normal now, I say it’s best to leave it alone. 

Post # 3
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480 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I agree, it was just a busy time for him, it’s not related to the ring talk. He didn’t seem bothered or frightened or anything, but rather talkative and interested in the matter 🙂 Don’t worry!

Post # 4
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1242 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - Chateau Briand

Two weeks doesn’t seem like a long time to be distant, he probably was in fact really busy, especially since you mentioned he did text you throughout that time just not as often as usual. That being said, I do agree with BrownPlaidBook in that if you are refusing to go with him to pick out the ring, you can’t really be upset if he picks something completely different that what you showed him.

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