Bf told me this morning he's going to FEB-MAR

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I hope he finds something soon! But in the mean time, if he wants to propose, I wouldn’t stop him!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@southernbelle381:  As someone with a degree in Accounting I feel like your soon to be FI can find a job soon if that is what he wants!  Plus tax season is upon us!

Maybe he just had a realization that he doesn’t want to face the world alone?!?

Either way if I were you and he proposed I would say yes if your only reservation is the fact that he is currently unemployed.  He will have plenty of time to get a job before you guys tie the knot.   Plus having a future wife might motivate him to find a job quicker!

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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

@southernbelle381 

I don’t see a problem to get engaged and/or married while still in school. I recently got engaged and am still in school. Plus, I know people, who have been married (young) before they even start school and are doing fantastic! I don’t think this should stay on the way of you getting engaged, if you really love each other and want to be together. The lack of job, on the other side, might be a reason to hold off for a little bit as a wedding is a huge expense. You should talk to him and explain your concerns, maybe he’s got a plan 😉

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

@southernbelle381:  

I haven’t started planning yet. But it’s mainly because we will need to come up with the money ourselves and we’d probably wait till I get a more stable job, so we can afford it 🙂 I don’t think it’ll be a problem to hold off, especially if it’s just for 4 months. You can still gather ideas in your time off of school, so when the time comes you’ll be clear on what you want. That’s what I currently do 😛

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