BF tricked me! (Unknowingly)

posted 3 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
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2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Yes. My now-FI used to tell me stuff like that all of the time. It seems like he REALLY wants this to be a surprise for you. I know that it is difficult to be patient and not bring it up. But, in the end, being surprised with a proposal is SO worth it!

Post # 4
Hostess
8680 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Honestly I never brought up a propsal to my now Fi… we had discussed our futures, what we’d do in certain situations and what we each wanted for our futures, but I never asked, nagged or begged him to propose! When he was ready he did it all on his own [3 years after living together]

Post # 6
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2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

@fainavach1992:  Honestly, he could be. I really don’t think he was trying to be mean-spirited. What is probably going on inside of his head is that he feels like you are trying to “ruin” whatever he may be planning. I know you aren’t purposefully trying to ruin anything, but let him do his thing.

Believe me, I tried to figure out exactly when my FI was going to propose. I hate being surprised. But, he got me. And it was worth it. It was seriously the most perfect day of my life.

Post # 8
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1140 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: Seattle, WA

@fainavach1992:  I don’t read this as him rubbing it in.  It sounds to me like he’s letting you know he’s starting the ring shopping process, thinking that would make you happy.  I would certainly be excited if I found out my SO was looking!

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