BFF's husband is cheating on her…abandoning her and their children.

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I grew up in the military. I always commend how they treat wronged spouses. She needs to put all that on record, and inform his bosses. She needs to take him for what he has , and the military will help her do that. Best wishes to her and her children.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

@Glenda_the_good_witch:  Cheating is illegal in the military?  How do they treat wronged spouses?  How do they intervene on people’s private lives?  I have no exposure to military life and am very curious!

@TexasSpringBride:  I think you’re doing just the right things already.  Good luck to your best friend; I hope she recovers from this quickly so that she can move on to a much better life without that loser!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

They will order him to pay a lot of support. Ppl in the military are awarded larger sums of support because they believe that ppl should support their family. She would also receive a decent amount in spousal support/alimony. Adultery in the military is illegal and is highly punishable. Even if the gender was reversed it would remain the same. His little mistress will also face repercussions for her actions as well. In the eyes of the military, his whore is just as wrong as he is.

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

That’s awful. If the military will do something about it I definitely would file a report or whatever needs to be done. Kicking your wife and children out of the house is not acceptable. He should be the one leaving if anything!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It sucks that she’s still in love, but if he doesn’t want to be with his family she’s going to (hopefully) snap out of it soon… and then I hope she takes this to his command, if it helps her get better compensation.

What a jerk this guy is.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Yes my friend is currently serving. While in Afghanistan, her husband cheated on her. He also is full time military. He cheated with one of his bosses. They were both court martialed and served a few months in a military prison, which is not a place one wants to go. All prisons are bad but military prisons……. Both were dishonorably discharged with no benefits.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

@Glenda_the_good_witch:  All prisons are bad but military prisons……. Both were dishonorably discharged with no benefits.

 

Are you serious? I had no clue! Why would anybody jeopardize all that, losing their famiy, going to jail and losing their benefits for a piece of a$$…that’s cray 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Glenda_the_good_witch:  +1
This is true! It won’t be pretty if she reports this to his boss, which she should considering how awful he is being when HE is the one cheating.

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

This is terrible. But seriously, they should base a TV show on your life.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@MeiFrancis:  I know, right?

 

@TexasSpringBride:  Let us know what she decides to do!  This might be a dumb question, but from what I understand, your friend is concerned that she won’t get child support if she turns in her husband?  But doesn’t the military require child support payments, especially in the case of infidelity?

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