Bickering for Fun?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
4080 posts
Honey bee

Iheartmyairman:  No, and honestly I think the idea sounds really immature.

DH and I will occasionally be snarky with each other, but I don’t see the benefit of “play” fighting or arguing or any good it would bring. 

DH and I have been together for 11 years and we rarely fight/argue. We will occasionally bicker about mundane topic, but not often and we don’t do it for “fun.”

Post # 3
4347 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Iheartmyairman:  yeah we do it sometimes. All in good fun. Sometimes one of us will say something and the other will just yell “Shut up!” and then laugh or we’ll say nice things to each other but in an angry tone. Idk why, just to be goofy. We don’t really fight for real much at all.

Post # 4
198 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015 - Bali

Ha! We do this all the time. We wrestle too. Great fun!


Life isn’t meant to be serious.

Post # 5
7410 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I know some people like the bickering whether it’s kidding or not. FI and I have always just gotten along really, really well and don’t do the bickering or play fighting thing. To each their own I guess.

Post # 6
15049 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

We’ve gotten into heated political discussions in public, usually at restaurants. We have odd stopping points, like when food comes, or the bill comes, and the next second we’re laughing at something or getting ready to leave hand in hand. We usually provoke some odd looks from those around us as, we’ve been told, it can sound like we’re ready to rip each other’s throats out. 

Post # 7
5455 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

I think it all depends on whether there is genuine malice involved.  If not, it’s just normal squabbling.

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