Big fight with mum 4 days before wedding!!!

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
6525 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@racwonderland:  my mom did the same to me. The night before my wedding her and i got into a huge fight. To the point where she didnt speak to me the day of the wedding until she got what she wanted.

I was in no mood to desl with bullshit so i just let her have her way bc my mom is spiteful abd will have caused a scene. Its your wedding, but to avoid any issues for yourself and FH just let her have it her way to get her to shut up. Or what you can do is agree to use the speech your mom has written but when FH is actually giving his speech, he will read his. That will really make her mad though lol

Post # 4
229 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@racwonderland:  I got into a fight with my mom too. I actually hung up on her the morning of the wedding. My mom always has an idea about everything, so I adopted the “just walk away” approach. It worked out pretty well for me.

The morning of the wedding I forgot my earrings at home. I called my mom bc she was the only person besides me and DH who had a key to our apartment, and she was also the only person who had not arrived at the venue. We got into a big fight though, bc she was running late, and didn’t want to stop because she would be even more late. I got frustrated and hung up on her, then gave the task to the best man to figure out. Funny enough, the person he handed the task to? My mom. Sometimes moms react differently to certain people. Is there anyone else you can have talk to her to ease some of the tension?

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