(Closed) Biggest mistake of my life

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Honestly, it sounds like you want him back because you can’t have him.  You seem to have a pattern of getting in a relationship with him, then running off with a new guy, then realizing the new guy isn’t for you, and going back.  If you really were meant to be with him, would you really have put him through the emotional ringer so much?

Sorry if this is harsh, but it sounds like a case of “It’s my toy and no one else can play with it!”  If he was suddenly singke, do you know for certain you wouldn’t date him for a little bit and then find a reason to break up with him again?  Is he really happy with the new girl? 

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hmmm.  I don’t mean to be hurful to you, but you need to leave him alone.  He’s moved on without you and you need to move on as well.  There will be another man for you, but not this one.  He is no longer available for a relationship with you.  It’s too late, it’s over. 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

If he was “the one” you wouldn’t have broken up with him multiple times.  Sounds like you are lonely and wanting to go back to the comfort of a past relationship.

He’s moved on.  You need to leave him alone.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think you have done enough harm to this man. Leave him alone. When you are a mature enough, the right relationship will come along.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree with the PPs…move on and let him do the same.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

She’s the jealous type because you (and partially him) allowed her to be jealous. You let him go (TWICE), now it’s time to leave him be. If it wasn’t meant to be between the two of them, then it wont work out. But it’s not your job to come between them simply because you are having regrets years later.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper

This is a case of wanting what you can’t have, and more of a game to you. Leave the guy alone. You’ve done enough damage.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Please, leave him alone.

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper

“I know the girl he is with is NOT the one. She’s the very jealous type”

Hi, kettle?  It’s me, pot.  You’re black.

Leave the poor guy alone.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper

I agree in leaving him alone. What if you break up this relationship, get back together with him and a year later want to be single again? He’s finally moved on…I think you need to let this one go.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Please leave that poor man alone

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Leave him alone.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

Leave him alone.

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@miss_regret:  This may sound harsh, but please,  please don’t contact him.  Let him go.  You have hurt him twice, and now that he’s moved on (whether you hear through the grapevine that it’s the real deal or not), he deserves to be able to live his life with someone else.  I have to agree with a PP that you seem to want what you can’t have, and there’s no telling what will happen if you have him back again….which I don’t think you really deserve at this point.  Honestly, it kind of struck me how you’re saying she’s not the one for him and that she’s the jealous type or whatnot, but do you think you were really the greatest thing for him either?  A girl that broke his heart twice and is known to drop him for whatever next guy comes around?  I think you should try to move on and let him do the same.

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