Biggest offender of using your maids as brideslaves ever!

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
2305 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m speechless. I couldn’t imagine being this girls friend, let alone being in her wedding. She basically wants to control her bridesmaids lives for the next year!

4746 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Hoooooly banannas.

4540 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

Uhhh…… wow…..

2556 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I wish this was sent to me. I’d write a nice response and cc allll the bridesmaid’s and L!! this is insane!!


2180 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I hope they all drop out on her.  She deserves an epic wedding alright… an epic failure, that is.

971 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Anyone who would even agree to this “epic” is missing a few marbles…I wouldn’t even attend this wedding much less be a bridesmaid!

10016 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

So once you commit to be a bridesmaid you’re basically answering a series of court summons?

1060 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would be so offended if I recieved this kind of email and I would most definitely call her out on it. But then again, myself, all my friends and bridesmaids are not high maitenance girls. 

3889 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

The bride writes:

“You all have a big roll in this wedding…”

You reckon that’s kaiser roll, or sesame seed?

(the whole role/roll thing really bothers me, and if you’re going to be all bossy already, maybe you can boss someone into proofreading for you first…)

5409 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

At least she’s honest? I would reply back with rules for the correct use of your/you’re

28 posts

Not going to lie, because it’s taken right out of a message, when I read that I felt that she was talking to me and it definately scared me hahaha.

81 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

That is just… wow. Wow. I would decline that honor as fast as I possibly could! 

2308 posts
Buzzing bee

I would have replied with:

It’s you’re not your, and no, as in “no, I do not want to be your bridesmaid.”

hugs, kisses, and all that other shit.


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