- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
I wanted to finally make a thread about my FMIL. Finally after all the bs, she is going into surgery tomorrow to have her tumor removed. It has been an ordeal. After the insurance rant I made last week in the Lounge, she didn’t get an appointment until Tuesday. Not for a biopsy that day, just an appointment with the oncologist. The oncologist schedules her biopsy for the next day. We were relieved at that point.
Our relief didn’t last that long. Apprently the oncologist put her in a twilight kind of knock out and was not able to remove the tumor that way because it was to big . . .
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot????
If you knew the size of the tumor, why would you go in this way?
At this point it doesn’t matter, I guess.
Which all of this brings us to tomorrow.
About an hour ago, I kissed my FI goodbye as heads down to Florida to be with his mom for the surgery. My FSIL arrived there yesterday. It kills me that I’m not there with them for support and whatever else they may need.
I wanted to thank those bees who were kind with their words and support when I posted my original thread. I was full of anger and frustration at the world. At the system. At God.
Now I’m just doing what I can to support FI and his family any way I can. When we go down for Thanksgiving FI and I plan to cook the meal. I know his mom will be hard pressed to not do anything in the kitchen that day, (Spaniard moms don’t like being told no!) 🙂
Her surgery is at 0930. I will post updates as soon as I get them and also contiune to post here our family’s journey with cancer. Thank you again for your kindness and support.