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Birdcage Veil with long hair?

posted 2 years ago in Accessories
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  • poll: How should I wear my hair?
    Wear your hair down and leave the birdcage veil in the closet : (4 votes)
    8 %
    Hair down with the birdcage : (34 votes)
    69 %
    Ignore your fiance and wear your hair up with the birdcage veil : (9 votes)
    18 %
    Rush out and purchase a different veil : (2 votes)
    4 %
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    pie    09/05/09  

    My fiance just threw me a curveball last week right before my hair trial. He said (the sweetest thing) "That he loves my hair and thinks it is one of my most attractive features and that I should wear it down".  Our wedding is in 5 days.  I set up a second appointment with my hairdresser on Wednesday to play with some down styles. 

    I had been planning to wear my hair in an updo with a birdcage veil.  I found a few photos of birdcage veils with long hair, but in general I think that they look the best with short hair or an updo. 

    I considered an updo that could be easily taken down for later in the evening, but my hair appointment is at noon and the wedding ceremony isn't until 6pm... 

    Should I wear my hair down and keep the birdcage in the closet? or could I just wear it for the ceremony, but take it off for the reception and majority of the photos?  I really had my heart set on the birdcage.

     
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    Khadijathediva    February 20th, 2009   New York, New York

    I say if you wear it down. Wear it half up half down. No matter how you look on your wedding day he will still love the way you look.

     
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    kjpugs    March 20, 2010   Indianapolis, IN

    I think half back would look great!

     
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    melodicsighs1    May 22, 2010   San Diego

    I think birdcages look fine with hair down as long as it's styled nicely. best of both worlds, I think.

     
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    jingle96    May 28, 2010   DW in ARUBA/livin' in VA

    I have the same dilemma!  FI wants my hair down for the wedding, but I like birdcage veils.  So I was wondering the same thing about having long hair with the birdcage!!  I agree that it looks prettier with an updo, but I guess we want the FIs to be happy too!

     
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    pie    09/05/09  

    I had my hair trial on Wednesday and here are my two options.  I left the salon with my hair up and when I got home the Fiance said- oh- your hair up looks nice.  I thought it was going to be really severely pulled back from  your face....

    However, everyone I have showed the photos to have liked the down-do better (with the exception of a couple of the hairdressers who thought the up-do was much more bridal).

    I think I'll be going with down...

    Including some photos for jingle96.

    -Pie

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    nybride09    9/19/09   New York, NY

    from the pix in your trial, i think it looks great down with the birdcage.

     
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    heather25       New York

    OMG!  I think it looks absolutely gorg in the down pictures with the veil.  In fact, much much better than the up.  So Old Hollywood.

     
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    minneapolitan    11/7/2009   Minneapolis, MN

    I think it looks super cute with your hair down!  Don't sweat it :)

     
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    pie    09/05/09  

    Just wanted to post and show you how it all turned out.  Thanks for your feedback.  We had an awesome wedding.

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    mdarrah    4/4/09   Los Angeles, CA

    You made a great choice!!  You look radiant!!!  CONGRATS!

     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Looks awesome!  Congrats!  :)

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    so gorgeous!  glad it worked out well =)

     
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    shelliduke    October 17, 2009   New York, NY

    The veil looks great with the long hair!  Love it!  Congrats :)

     
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    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    Gorgeous!! Congrats!

     
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    MissGoodie    July 24, 2010   Coquitlam

    Looks awesome, you definitely made the right choice!

     
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    honeybun    June 5, 2010   VA

    oh wow!  you look fabulous!  I'm trying to decide this exact same thing right now...  love the birdcage but mom and FI like the regular ones.  I think I want my hair up, but I know FI loves it when it's down..... ahhhh!!!!!!!!!Yell   haha

     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    This is my inspiration for long hair with a birdcage veil.  I know it's not for everyone, but I loooooove it!  "Laughing"

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    melimel33    November 8, 2009   Pleasanton, ca

    You look AMAZING! That looks just like the style dresses I was looking at. If you don't mind me asking, what dress did you wear? Where did you get your veil?

    I would not have chosen the birdcage veil with hair down but after seeing your pictures I would DEFINITELY not choose hair up with the birdcage veil!

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    You looked gorgeous! And thanks for the pic, I was wondering how it would look. I have a hair trial coming up, and that really helped. 

     
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    pie    09/05/09  

    <span style="font-size: x-small; color: #81a026;">melimel33  My dress was from Filene's "Running of the brides" in NYC last February.  The tag claimed that it was from Yolandas (Boston?) and I felt it was a steal at $250.  I didn't need very many alterations aside from hemming.

    My veil was from seller anastasiya7860 on e-bay and I purchased the hair fascinator from someone here on weddingbee.

    Best wishes with your wedding.

     
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    @ pie -I LOVE your hair! Do you have a pic of the back?

     
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    Mrs Moose    August 15, 2009  

    Wow - you look gorgeous!  So radiant!

     
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    hhcheung2000       San Diego, CA

    I never would have thought about getting a birdcage veil wearing your hair down, but it looked amazing on you the day of the wedding.

     
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    stephinPA    October 29, 2010   Reading, PA

    You look so beautiful!  Congrats!

     
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    Mrs. Dee to Bee    January 30, 2010   Louisville, KY (Wedding in TX)

    Ok...I voted for ignoring your fiance and it's because from my experience, men say things like "I LOVE your hair down/curly/long/fill-in-the-blank" but it doesn't mean they don't love it otherwise. Also, you are most beautiful when relaxed and comfortable. You know he'll love it no matter how your hair is...and you have the rest of your life to wear it just like he likes it. (:

     
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    pie    09/05/09  

    Mrscingle2be - here is a photo of the back (and my VERY handsome groom).  Unfortunately I don't have any direct-on photos yet (these are just the teasers from the photographer).

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    HapaBride    May 2, 2009   Tokyo, Japan

    Birdcage veils are so much fun! ;-) I wore my hair up for the ceremony (with a birdcage veil) and then took half of my hair down!  I must warn you that taking my hair out took 20 minutes. I think I would have rather left my hair up and joined my guests for a drink at cocktail hour! 

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