Birthday proposal?? Don't think so :(

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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28 posts
Newbee

Don’t feel down about your birthday! At least you know it’s coming. And I think it’s sweet that he’s got it planned out already 🙂

I get it though, I’d probably also have a WTF moment if my SO said that to me. But boys are silly, we all know this 😉

And HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Enjoy it!! Revel in the anticipation of your future engagement.

Post # 5
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935 posts
Busy bee

maybe he is trying to trick you because he realized he wanted to surpise you on your birthday so he backtracked by saying it won’t happen.. who knows. anyone your birthday is still something major to celebrate, and just think it will be your last birthday as a waiting bee. I know its early but congrats !! I hope the proposal is everything you want and more.

Post # 6
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215 posts
Helper bee

@katherin788:  Dont stress that he didnt do it on your birthday! It would have been so expected. I think guys are worse than girls when it comes to making up their minds about serious things such as a proposal! Keep your head up!

I was in the same situation. I thought my SO would surely propose on my birthday (August) and when that didnt happen I asked him about it and he said it would be too much of an expectance. Then I remeber he said a long time ago that he would propose to me on his birhtday because it wouldnt be expected to do it on his birhtday, well his birthday came around (September) still no proposal. I asked him why and he said he has an even better idea. So now its November and still no proposal and Im still waiting, wondering what his “better idea” is. Honestly I think hes going to propose in the spring of 2014 because of the fact that he will be away during the christmas holdidays and i wont be able to go with him. Cant propose to me then when Im not around, lol!

Happy Birthday! Hope its a good one!

Post # 7
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1343 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

First off, happy birthday!  Second, I would totally feel the same way, but I think it is great he is sticking to a plan!!

Post # 8
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289 posts
Helper bee

@katherin788:  First off Happy Birthday!  Mine is this weekend too! 

I am actually expecting a proposal this weekend, eek!  But I have decided that if it doesn’t happen(I suspect but don’t know for sure) that I will still be happy and excited to be celebrating my birthday.  I will be turning the age that I will be when I get engaged!  If it doesn’t happen this weekend this will be the last birthday I have before we get engaged and that is exciting to think about too.  So focus on those happy thoughts.  Even if it doesn’t happen just yet it sounds like it will be very soon!! 

Post # 9
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817 posts
Busy bee

Happy Birthday!! Mine is Wednesday 🙂

I agree that maybe he’s trying to throw you off… either way your birthday is still a special day and you’ll be engaged soon!!

Post # 10
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2052 posts
Buzzing bee

At least you know it’s coming!!

Hang in there!

Post # 15
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1952 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Hope you have an amazing birthday, lovely! Enjoy your last birthday as a girlfriend, because the next one you will be a fiancee! 🙂

Post # 16
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318 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

i dont get it … its not like hes not going to purpose?

just not going to do it this weekend ..

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