Bitter Maid of Honor DRAMA!!!!!!!!

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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2704 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I would talk to her. Maybe she wants to back out but doesn’t know how. It’s a shitty situation but the sooner you know, the better.

I had a BM drop out, and she distanced herself and what seemed to be ignored me for a couple weeks… it was clear she wanted out. We talked, and she told me her reasons (financial and time) which I completely understood and she’s still one of my best friends.

If she wants to, and you give her a way ‘out’ she’ll take it, sometimes people try to be people pleasers and say yes to everyone, have no time managaement skills then realize they can’t handle it all. It sucks… but it happens all the time. Talk to her, ASAP.

I’m sorry you’re having such a bad expereince, try not to let it cloud the awesomeness that will be you marrying your best friend.

Post # 3
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6510 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

If she can’t afford her dress she might not be able to afford a shower gift either and maybe she thought it would be less embarrassing to back out instead of showing up empty handed? I would talk to get before just kicking her out over this.

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