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Black Bridesmaids Dresses...Do or Don't

posted 1 year ago in Bridesmaids
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    sgwed    June 18, 2011  

    My wedding is in June of next year, and my colors are black and pink. Most of my girls are at least a size 10 or more. I have one size 0. I thought black would be most flattering and look really cute with hot pink bouquets...but I'm still not 100% sold on black dresses in a wedding. I love the idea of hot pink dresses, but I thought black would be easier to find a discount and it would serve as a dress she could wear again.

     
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    Miss Syrup    June 26, 2010   Littleton, Colorado

    My girls wore black for their dresses and everyone commented on how classy the look was. 

    Black is timeless and the flowers will look GREAT with it :)

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    Mollytov    August 29, 2011   Vancouver

    Do!

     
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    Ginger87    January 15, 2011   MN

    I personally love black bridesmaids dresses, I think they are very classy and timeless. If you want to add the pink, you could always do a hot pink sash or something. Then you could have the best of both!

     
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    fishwoman    May 14, 2011   Kenosha

    Yay!  I love your colors, very similar to mine.  I wanted a black dress with a green sash, but i'm in the same boat as far as girls sizes.  I found this dress and it was sooooo perfect.  You can't tell in the picture, but there is some fun bling on the top. The ruching is really flattering and my bright green flowers (your pink ones) will look great against the black.  I decided that the black was timeless and the flowers would be that pop of color. 

    http://davincibridal.com/collections.php?cat=28&p=0&u=bridesmaid

     
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    babebabe06    June 11, 2011   las cruces nm

    i am doing black i i think its versaitle and can be worn again!!!

     
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    sessaj    October 23, 2010   NL, Canada

    My BMs are all wearing black dresses - everything is black and white in our wedding, with a cobalt blue accent colour.  I think black dresses will mean they might actually wear them again, whereas with pink that might be less likely. 

     
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    MstoMrs      

    I'm a black bridesmaid girl myself! I think they're a total do!!!

     
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    OurWedding    August 13, 2011   South Carolina

    I'm going with black dresses! They are flattering and timeless!

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    i'm a color fan, so i'd rather have pink. but if you are happy with black, i'd do that for the reasons that you've already said.

     
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    AlmostMrsG    September 25, 2010   Rhode Island

    I love the black dresses with the hot pink bouquets. Total win!

     
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    Loribeth    December 1, 2010   Michigan (Married in Savannah, GA)

    Black is timeless....  Can you imagine Audrey Hepburn wearing a hot pink dress in Breakfast at Tiffany's?  Black is a total "DO"!

     
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    chelseamorning    November 1, 2008   Washington, DC/Atlanta

    If you are wary of all black, you could get a black dress with a pink sash or accent. But I think that all black dresses look very classy for a wedding, especially against hot pink flowers.

     
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    clarebee    August 21, 2010   Vienna, VA (wedding in Greensboro, GA)

    I think black bridesmaids dresses look great!

     
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    TwoCoins    February 11, 2011   Connecticut

    We're doing black dresses- they are definitely classy and gorgeous! Since my wedding is in the winter, we're doing purple pashminas as an accent- for the summer, pink flowers or some other accent will look great!

     
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    absolutbettie    May 2, 2009   New York, NY

    Total DO!!  I did black bridesmaids dresses and they looked gorgeous and elegant.  And best of all, all the girls felt totally comfortable wearing them.  I been in 2 weddings where we wore pink bridesmaids dresses...eesh, they were not flattering on everyone.  Also, if you go for pink bm dresses through a 'traditional' BM retailer like Dessy or Alfred Angelo, it is tough to find a very good quality dress at a decent price.  However, you can find amazing black dresses at the same price at Nordstroms, Bluefly, Saks, etc that your girls can definitely wear again!  

     
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    Allyser    September 1, 2010  

    My mom hates them and even thinks it's rude to wear black to a wedding (must be generational thing!) but i think it is a very classic and elegant look and love it! 

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    Black is a do :)

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    Black is great! Hot pink dresses is tough to pull off. I've seen it, but it really is an INTENSE color to wear. I love the idea of black dresses, hot pink shoes, and hot pink bouquets. Black is really flattering, too. And timeless. And classic. Cannot go wrong.

     
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    Ambersue815    May 14, 2011   Wausau, WI

    Total DO...I'm having black/fuschia as my colors too. Bridesmaids will wear black and the flower girls will wear fuschia.

     
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    whfields    June 3, 2010   wedding in Florida

    Our colors were black, white and yellow.  My MOH wore black and she looked amazing...it's such a flattering color and if it's a style your girls like they can always wear it again!  Who doesn't have use for a cute LBD?

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    I just love Black...and Black with Fuschia/Hot Pink is even better.  Black looks great on all shapes and sizes (see pics below) and the Pink is a great "pop" in photos.  Good Luck! 

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    EvaBostonTerrier    July 3, 2010  

    I love black bridesmaid dresses, but I may be biased as my girls wore black :)

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    sgwed    June 18, 2011  

    Thanks so much for everyone's feedback!! This helps a lot! I feel a lot better about doing black dresses! Black it is!

     
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    KatieMK    July 21, 2012  

    I love black bridesmaids' dresses. I went to a wedding last summer where the BMs wore black and carried purple. It was gorgeous :)

     
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    Applestar13    January 8, 2011   Phoenix, AZ

    I think black is great! That was my first choice because the BM dresses that I originally picked didn't have slate. My mom however, was VERY against it and made me change my mind...I wish I didn't. I ended up chosing a different style and picked slate over black :(

     
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    piglet_625    January 1, 1991  

    Yay for black dresses!!  I love this idea because black is completely re-wearable.  I was a co-MOH in my best friend's wedding and we got to wear black and the other girls wore slightly different dresses.  I secretly liked ours better... :)

     

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