(Closed) Black or no black that is the question

posted 6 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Get it in white or black
    White with red : (7 votes)
    29 %
    Black with red : (17 votes)
    71 %
  • Post # 3
    3220 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    How does your Fiance feel? If he’s on board then go for the black dress!

    Post # 4
    4653 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    If you wont regret it then do it! To get the feel you can always try on some bridesmaids dresses in black in the shape you want!

    Post # 5
    927 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    as long as YOU are happy with it that is all that matters!

    Post # 7
    1508 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I say wear what makes you happy!


    If you’re really concerned about disappointing people(and depending on budget) maybe look for a white dress for the ceremony then switch to black after…

    Post # 8
    20 posts
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think you should wear what you want to wear – it’s your day and as long as you won’t look back and wish you wore white then then go for it!


    Post # 9
    336 posts
    Helper bee

    If you’re sure, go for it! 

    Post # 10
    2263 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I say wear what you want… do you think a middle-ground… like a deep gray would be an option? Just wondering 🙂 I personally love black though 

    Post # 11
    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Go for the black. You only have one wedding day to do exactly what you want! You will dissapoint someone no matter what and you can’t change that, but you do not want to dissapoint yourself on that day.

    Post # 12
    158 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I am wearing a black dress for my wedding… I wouldnt have it any other way.  I tried on a bunch of white dresses, and only one seemed “decent”.  I look at it this way, if someone can’t accept the fact i am wearing a black dress, they didn’t make the guest list anyways.  Anyone who really knows me, or my Fiance, knows that “traditional” wedding stuff is just not who we are.  

    Go for it.  You want to feel like yur best on your big day!!

    Post # 13
    6998 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    wear what makes you feel good! After i read this i had to google black wedding dresses and i LOVE these pictures! i think you can totally pull it off – they both still look very bridal in my opinion.




    Post # 14
    85 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I got married a month ago and one thing I learned from the experience is to do what really makes you happy.  I tried to make other people happy in a few instances and it backfired on me.  I made the decision to just do what really makes me and my husband happy and I have never regretted that decision.  It wasn’t easy, but I am so happy I followed my heart.

    Do what makes you happy because it is your day. 

    Post # 15
    7312 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    If the black feels like you, and the white just doesn’t, then wear the black! In My Humble Opinion, on your wedding day you should feel like the best version of yourself. If that means wearing a black dress, then go for it. 🙂

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